in the gotm ther are 2 civs and diff units i am used to how can i get these new civ and units for a reg game

You probably have to add them to a custom scenario file. Open up the Civ III editory and mess around...I don't know how to do it.

so i got to make a scenario. is there one i came just download

Probably just beg the GOTM people for a .biq of an early GOTM.

who are the gotm people i need to ask

Probably ainwood.

Bluebox put together one of these - it has all the units etc, but none of the rubbish that our one has. You can get it from this thread. (http://forums.civfanatics.com/showthread.php?t=89390) :)

who are the gotm people i need to askThe ones with 'GOTM Staff' in their sigs.

how can i get these new civ and units for a reg game I assume from this that you are running Civ3 version 1.29f? If so, you can get all you need to play current GOTMs AND regular games with the GOTM extra civs and units and rules by downloading and installing the All-in-One GOTM Installer that's linked in my signature.

The installer sets you up to play GOTM start files with no further actions required. It also installs everything you need to play Bluebox's GOTM scenario. You just have to swap two or three graphics files around to do so, and the instructions for this are include in the installed Readme files. It's a single 25 MByte download.