Sorry if this has been asked and answered, but unless I'm missing another search function for the forums, we're stuck witht he google search, which really sucks for trying to find a relatively common set of terms, as I don't see any option to narrow down which forums I want searched.

With that out of the way, is it possible to load multiple mods at once? IE, load the Realism Mod along with Snoopy's Great Person Mod and the Forest Mod? Just curious before I try to integrate them all into one game...

yes you need to mod the file yourself

look at the downloaded mods that you have

see if any of the files match each other by name and location whithin the mod subdirectories

use a file compare tool (I use 'compare It") to adjust the files to include the mods you want

This could get tremendously complex if the two mods both, say, add new units with new graphics. As long as it's just the .xml files it's relitively easy, though, if time consuming.