Since the Amra mod is in stasis and can't be played with 3.17 patch, how would I go about merging CIV Gold with the elements present in the Amra mod? Specifically,

Revolution
Dale's Combat Mod

Those are the ones I will die for, but whatever is included with amra would be nice.

You might want to check out Merged Mod (which combines them both, plus some extras, like Wolfshanze's mod); however, although Wolfshanze is now 3.17 compatible, certain other mod (comps) aren't - yet. But I'm sure CIV Gold team has something to add on this as well.;)