I owe the xbox version....
I just can't seem to play multi-player....
apparently nobody seems to be online.

Is there a reason for this?

Wait longer for people to join your game.

Moved to the Multiplayer forum.

Welcome to CFC, NeOPhAzE! :goodjob:

I doubt that would work....
It's always me who is the host... never the person who join in.

You still need other people to play the game, so wait for them to join. How long are you waiting? You usually need to wait several minutes before you get enough people to start a game.