Okay, decided to do more responding
Maths doesn't claim that it reflects physical reality. It's claim is "if these axioms hold, then these theorems are also true".
Strictly speaking, yes, I agree.
"Sigh"... this leads us to the old debate of weather math is "real" or just a tool. A debate which has never been entirely settled, as far as I know. But in spite of that, I find the matter rather easy to comprehend.
Math is foremost a tool and hence not a reflection of physical reality. I can go along with that. However, I'd maintain that
quantities are a physical reality. But as with anything, we need a language to describe this physical reality. And this is was math is for, fundamentally. Isn't that painfully evident?
It is true that it is normal that not any single mathematical tool has a
direct correspondence in physical reality - such as negative numbers, to use a simple example. However, in such cases, the assumption still seems to be that if not a physical status, then the numbers still reflect a physical relation of physical statuses, or put differently a relative physical status. For instance, a negative number represents the lack of a certain quantity. So it indirectly still fully represents a real physical thing. Just that the assumption of it being "missing" is included.
The same goes for all assertions about the relation of quantities math engages in, for all I can see. So I really don't see the god-damn problem in judging math not by its own rules but the physical reality of quantities. Though with an exception: infinity.
Why would you think that is true? What is the difference between a number and a "series of numbers"?
Is 123 a series of numbers or a number? Is 0.22 a number or a series of numbers? What is a number in your opinion? How does a series of (supposedly) inanimate objects "try" to get close somethin? What it means to be infintely close to something?
If you first answer these questions satisfactorily, we can continue with the rest of your post.
My assumption is that every single digit stands for an exact quantity and that a "proper" number stands for an exact total sum of those quantities (whereas "proper" refers to it being tied to physical reality by representing an exact quantity).
1 stands for something being there one time.
0.1 stands for the 10th part of something being there.
1.1 stands for something being there one time and additionally the 10th part of the same thing being there one time. Etcetera. That is the most simplest case of what I already said - math reflecting physical reality in terms of quantities. Which, I repeat, is all math does, even if at times interwoven with assumptions about the relative status of a quantity (with the exception of infinity).
In the case of infinite digits, there is no exact total sum of the quantities the number describes, since the parts of the sum go on forever. As a consequence, 0.999... does not represent an actual amount of something. But just a function for a number to "behave" as it user moves along the digits.
0.999... "tries" in so far to get close to 1 as it represents a series of quantities which move in the sum every closer to 1 as the number goes on without ever reaching it, and as in so far as the people who thought of it tried to find a way to express something they can't express and as a consequence had to settle with creating a system which steadily comes closer without ever getting there. So it represents the mathematicians "trying" to get as close to 1 as possible.
And that it how being infinitely close looks like.
Also, the misthought seems to be that 0.999.... somehow would "be the same as"
0.9, 0.99, 0.999, 0.9999,...
Why would that be?
Is 1.5 similar to
1, 1.5?
Is it similar to
1, 1.5, 1.5, 1.5,... ?
Why not
1, 1.5, 1.6, 1.5, 1.5, 1.5.... ?
They are all similar in so far as they describe exact quantities. 0.999... violates that.
If you reject the definitions that are used in maths, can you give some coherent account on what are numbers, and how they should be interpreted?
I hope to have already done so now. Maybe not in sufficient formality, but at least I hope to have conveyed the idea.