I'm not offended. I'm not really interested in providing advance warning for all changes. It's great to get feedback, but design by committee tends to yield over-complicated solutions. Let's just say I see great appeal in dictatorships. I also think when there is disagreement, there should be discussion, so I am fine with a thread like this, and if more players are upset, they should speak up and say so. Players have the right to free speech (broadly speaking, within the rules of cfc). But the ultimate decision remains with the modding team here.
I do think its important to point out that us developers are not modding for fans though. I have never seen a paycheck, you aren't our customers, there is no contract between us, so I have no obligations. That doesn't mean we don't care what users think. But it does mean we do not have to make decisions they want. We can't please everyone, nor do we have to.
I think broadly, the goal of RAND is to create a finely polished mod with minimal bugs, a strong AI for civilization 4. I don't think giving players extra advantages over the AI fits into these goals anywhere.