My mod does include the AI - Warmongers Adjustments Mod as well as a number of other mods that are normally incorporated into Community Balance Patch (CBP). This is because my mod does not use CBP, just the Community Patch Core (CP). I would have used CBP but theres something about it that cause a massive amount of desyncs and CTDs.
You are right, it does appear that the Warmongers Adjustment is included in CP. It also appears that that values are different. Finally, I checked the CIV5UNITS.XML override and its going with the CP values over the AI-WA Mod values! Long and short of it, I can remove the AI-WA mod from my modpack as it is literally doing nothing. It did have lower values on a lot of things (less warmonger from capturing cities), but I'm okay with the CP values. Nice catch.
As far as grabbing the CSD and C4DF, there were some lua that overlapped and whenever that happened, I combined them in the last to load mod. Most of the time that was Health and Plague. If you don't include that mod, you will probably have to do the combination in the C4DF luas yourself.