Best ways to play Multiplayer?

I've been trying to get FfH2 to work in a multiplayer game. So far the only problem is that the game OOS's once I actually get it started. I've only been able to get one to start on Direct IP Connection and Online, both ended in failure. LAN Games won't even show that either I or my brother are hosting a game.

How would I go about getting a game of FfH to not OOS? And wasn't there a program or something recently posted on the forum that now supports FfH and would help create a more stable game?

Thank you for reading.

Direct connection or hamachi has been working fine for a few MP buddies of mine--hasn't been causing OOSes since 0.34 iirc

Tried just yesterday.OOS. First game we tried, both my friends got dropped to desktop (critical) even before load. Then they tried to rejoin...

In the end we had oos and one player's name was multiplied thrice

Next game just one player got oos, tried to rejoin but that didnt help.

There is apparently something wrong here :S

Otherwise I have just discovered this mod and its mindboggling But I guess I will have to play it SP since it won't work on MP. A fix would be appreciated.