I was Zulud in my last game That's life, it will happen every now and then, perhaps it will become a 'civ' rites of passage
Monty also seems kinda...passé in the light of newer, more "toothy" warmongers.
Makes sense monty would be nicer, he was the moron who let the spanish into his city as honored guests rather than be-heading them. And I agree having all of these around you is not necessarily a death situation depending on map size. If you can nab a few luxuries trade them away to get the AI's to attack one another. Then you just have to step in and check one of them if things go badly for any others, you dont want one to nab all their territory and have no one else to fight.