It's interesting reading ya'lls' posts. I am still debating whether to finally get CiV (AI competence is the main factor here) but in Civ 3 and 4, you really could never make a beeline for wonders in the beginning unless you had a capital and a second city on excellent productive terrain and you HAD to have at least a garrison of military units on two sides of your empire otherwise you were getting attacked by your neighbor or their neighbor. You just have to account for that in your production early on.. no civ in history achieved power without the ability to defend itself.
Sounds like things are getting fun
Sounds like things are getting fun