A2: I'm not really interested in those kind of games where most people turtle to a peaceful SV. Even if I don't do it myself, I want to see others really exploring the game and going outside of their comfort zone.
B2: Slightly more difficult would be good for me.
C1: What can I say? I play a lot of Civ 5 most of the time, despite a number of other things on my plate. Maybe it's because I play fast that I can get through a map in 2/3 days? Turtling should take far less time, but as I already said, I want to see that diminished.
D3: We've played 43 unmodded games together. From now on, I'd like 2/3 modded and 1 vanilla. I feel that's the right balance. Maybe 1 Acken Mod per month (which I wouldn't be able to play, but many would), assuming he's OK with that; 1 'Mod of the Month'; and 1 vanilla.
E4: I'd like something closer to the single-player scenarios, except that you begin in 4000BC and have to choose the best strategy to 'solve' the map, rather than just using tactics to move troops.
F4: I do like Wide Violent Culture most of all. Turtling to DiploV or spaceships seems unbelievably samey.
G5: I'm joining Grendeldef in the naughty corner, having dipped my dunce's cap in ketchup.