So what you are basically saying is that you are ok with pantheons being awarded randomly without puting and effort into acquiring them?
I don't think that's what he's saying, because that statement is not entirely true....
1) Discovering CSes does take effort. You need to build and/or send units exploring intelligently.
2) Most pantheons (in many games, all pantheons) are acquired by other forms of effort as well, mainly building religious buildings. It is rare to get the case where you can get a pantheon fully from contacting CSes.
3) The game is not rolling an 8 or 12-sided die to dish out pantheons to civs. It is not that type of random process that your statement is simplifying it to.
Even if contact with CSes alone was to enable a civ to start a pantheon, there's no disconnect between game and real life. Most areas of the greatest faith were founded in close proximity to other areas of great faith. The lasting monotheistic religions all developed in one relatively small area of the Middle East, and the lasting non-monotheistic religions developed in and around India. If your relatively cultureless and faithless tribe encounters a tribe with strong faith, of course yours will be greatly impacted and influenced, and more likely to develop a strong faith as well.
I think the game mechanic in question here reflects history well, actually. So if your initial tribe happens to be located in an area of strong faith, you're likely to develop strong faith before others who aren't located in those areas. That's just how things work.
And regardless of all that, I think the other poster's point was similar to mine. Not getting one particular pantheon is not the end of the world. The getting-faith-points-from-meeting-Religious-CS mechanic as is helps encourage and reward exploration and also reflects reality to some degree [I would say a large degree]. It makes the game more interesting (as opposed to simply getting the 30/15 gold from meeting a civ), and that's a good thing. As others have said, getting something else from other types of civs would be nice too.