Snorrius
Librivorator
We all know about this trendy Anglo-Saxon feminists' idea to promote same-sex marriages wherever and whenever possible. Personally I was always opposed to it just in case: if your are not sure about something invented by feminists - especially Anglo-Saxon feminists - it is better to dismiss it until you have time and desire to study it properly.
Lately I devoted some time to examine this problem and claims of LGBT community and my verdict was that the way they present this idea it is inherently flawed and should not be supported and actually the way it is now it will not be endorsed by majority in most of countries. Here are main issues:
1) Same-sex marriages are targeted only for sexual minorities and it is not clear why greater society should accomodate this whim. There is one case to abolish penalties for making same-sex sex or oral sex or other types of non-normative for given country type of sexual relations - and another to give such right as same sex marriage. This is another story - it is not about prohibition and sexual freedom but about granting certain benefits.
Well, it may work in country where homosexuality is not just acceptable sexual deviation like any other but close to a status of quasireligion because people do not have more important problems to be obsessed with, but it is totally unclear why some marginal group should be given such rights in other countries if it does not yield benefit for the bigger part of society.
2) If we look at this problem from the progressive point of view we will see that this type of marriage as promoted by LGBT-community is still old boring Christian-type marriage. There is nothing about real transition from patriarchal religious society to more modern and free one. It is just some marginal group which trying to get another undeserved benefit.
You can not sell this idea so poorly presented to people who are skeptical of LGBT people specialness, and they are majority in the world.
So how to do this in the correct way, obtain powerful allies and live happily thereafter?
The same-sex marriage should be just particular case of an extended marriage which would allow to form m x f union groups where
m - number of males,
f - number of females,
m + f >= 2,
m or f can be equal to zero.
This way such marriage would benefit much more greater part of the society. It would allow to form polygamic marriages to the benefit of f.e. Muslim and Mormons, polyandric marriage to the benefit of certain African and Tibet traditions as well as other people who would like to try such form of marriage, as well as generally more freer and modern types of unions. This way such idea would be supported by powerful religious communities and by all progressive people unlike one-sided egoistical "same-sex marriage".
Add-ons
On discrimination
On (un)importance of same-sex marriages
Lately I devoted some time to examine this problem and claims of LGBT community and my verdict was that the way they present this idea it is inherently flawed and should not be supported and actually the way it is now it will not be endorsed by majority in most of countries. Here are main issues:
1) Same-sex marriages are targeted only for sexual minorities and it is not clear why greater society should accomodate this whim. There is one case to abolish penalties for making same-sex sex or oral sex or other types of non-normative for given country type of sexual relations - and another to give such right as same sex marriage. This is another story - it is not about prohibition and sexual freedom but about granting certain benefits.
Well, it may work in country where homosexuality is not just acceptable sexual deviation like any other but close to a status of quasireligion because people do not have more important problems to be obsessed with, but it is totally unclear why some marginal group should be given such rights in other countries if it does not yield benefit for the bigger part of society.
2) If we look at this problem from the progressive point of view we will see that this type of marriage as promoted by LGBT-community is still old boring Christian-type marriage. There is nothing about real transition from patriarchal religious society to more modern and free one. It is just some marginal group which trying to get another undeserved benefit.
You can not sell this idea so poorly presented to people who are skeptical of LGBT people specialness, and they are majority in the world.
So how to do this in the correct way, obtain powerful allies and live happily thereafter?
The same-sex marriage should be just particular case of an extended marriage which would allow to form m x f union groups where
m - number of males,
f - number of females,
m + f >= 2,
m or f can be equal to zero.
This way such marriage would benefit much more greater part of the society. It would allow to form polygamic marriages to the benefit of f.e. Muslim and Mormons, polyandric marriage to the benefit of certain African and Tibet traditions as well as other people who would like to try such form of marriage, as well as generally more freer and modern types of unions. This way such idea would be supported by powerful religious communities and by all progressive people unlike one-sided egoistical "same-sex marriage".
Add-ons
On discrimination
On (un)importance of same-sex marriages