I think people around here remember me as a pretty strongly socially liberal. That of course hasn't changed, but I think now I'm more mature with how I deal with people about that. After all, part of my values is to uphold freedom of thought and to listen openly. And I think I've learned better how important it is for me personally to listen to others.
I've mainly learned that by talking to people in real life who were good listeners and bad listeners and realizing: "Huh, people who listen come off as wise, and people who don't come off as idiots. I guess I better be a good listener."