I always assumed the free refered to the maintenance cost, never too the build cost.
Diplomancy in Civ V (or any Civ for that matter) is a bit odd. To say the least.
At least the expansions fixed some issues with it, it was even...
Shaka who as my neighbour... good times.
Good thing you focus on the important parts of a game! :crazyeye:
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