22 year old guy wanting to have sex with 16 year old girl

Am I right to be angry?

  • Yes

    Votes: 38 28.1%
  • No

    Votes: 73 54.1%
  • Not sure

    Votes: 24 17.8%

  • Total voters
    135
A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?
You do not have the right to be angry about the legal activities of your daughter.
 
What about the 16yr right to have sex with an older guy? Telling another person what they can do with there own body (as long as your not hurting anyone) is uncivilized.
 
The age of consent in India is 16 for females, and nothing for males. So every girl above 16 is legal for every man of any age.

So yes, you have a right to be angry, but no right to actually do anything about it.
 
You can be whatever you want, but if its legal you can't do anything about it.

@aneeshm whats the age of consent for gay sex in India or is that still under the Unnatural Sex Act? Tsk....
 
Well, where I am at least, its perfectly legal. I see no problem, and even if it was illegal I wouldn't see a problem as a 16 year old girl is capable of making her own decisions.
 
I like 16 year olds too, and I'm 22. It really is little difference between 16 or 18 year old girl in terms of physical and mental maturity. Heck, some 16 year old girls have a more feminine figure than most of 20 or 22 year olds. Not to mention 16 year old girls may be as mentally mature as some 22 year old guys.

If they want to do it let them.
 
Hi. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/09/06/having-sex-with-a-16-year-old/)

You must have way too much time on your hands if you can spare the time to read some guy's blog on how he practices pickup.

My opinion on the matter is that if it's legal, there's no reason for him not to do it. If a girl wants to have sex, she'll have it with someone, older or not. Notice how 16 is legal in his jurisdiction, so he thought ahead. I don't subscribe to the notion that teenage girls are somehow innocent and are viciously corrupted by older men, because they don't need much coaxing.
 
I like older women... well older than you folks it seems... My minimum is 20 and my maximum is 30. I want a woman who has shed some of her immaturity and the chances are greater the older they get.

Why would you want a younger woman? I don't want to take care of a kid... as a wife or a girlfriend. It must be a sighted thing...
 
AoC is 14 at my place, so I would do it. If she's hot! (16, not 14)
 
Da-da, da-daaah! lord_joakim, the liberal teen sex poster to the rescue!!

Divide your age by 2. Then add 7. That is the youngest age you should consider dating.

Best rule I've ever heard. However, I still think it stands to the single person to decide.

Hi. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/09/06/having-sex-with-a-16-year-old/)

I said, you shouldn't be worried. Anyways, you have any right to be worried, or offended, as long you wouldn't hinder your daughter doing so, if that's what you're scared of.

shoot there are alot of fine 16 year olds... i would want to screw them if i was 40

:lol: Agreed ;) Just remember she should agree :p :joke:

im 15 and i want to have sex with a sixteen your old(girl) or any woman who is atractive between 15 and 30 for that matter

Spoken by a true 15-year-old guy. Heh, I'm sad females don't feel the same way xD

I see nothing wrong with wanting to go for a fresh and clean by general rule of age partner. It isn't like the animals wait til they are of age of consent. They do it when the parts grow in.

That is the term this is about - it shouldn't be about a number, not the age, it is for the person to decide.

Civilization makes us think anyone under the age of 18 is not capable of making decisions.

Seconded. Stupid.

So anyone who thinks such a relationship is a-okay is uncivilized? Any country with laws that deem this action not illegal is uncivilized?

Based on that, all of Europe, Canada, Australia and many states are uncivilized!

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/6/60/AOCWorldMap.png

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America

I think the orange (14 years) countries are the correct ones, when I compare the age to when it actually happens. In DK, it's 15 (read it or look at the map), and that is much better than the 18-years rule.

You must have way too much time on your hands if you can spare the time to read some guy's blog on how he practices pickup.

My opinion on the matter is that if it's legal, there's no reason for him not to do it. If a girl wants to have sex, she'll have it with someone, older or not. Notice how 16 is legal in his jurisdiction, so he thought ahead. I don't subscribe to the notion that teenage girls are somehow innocent and are viciously corrupted by older men, because they don't need much coaxing.

Seconded. They can mostly take care of themselves.

I like 16 year olds too, and I'm 22. It really is little difference between 16 or 18 year old girl in terms of physical and mental maturity. Heck, some 16 year old girls have a more feminine figure than most of 20 or 22 year olds. Not to mention 16 year old girls may be as mentally mature as some 22 year old guys.

If they want to do it let them.

again, a correct reply I had to quote

parents, Let her have fun and learn from her experiances.

...seconded...

...And I know a 16-years-old whose boyfriend is 22, they do it whenever they feel like it, I know a once 13-years-old who'd been dating an 18-years-old, and I've been hit on by a girl on twelve (:eek:) (I'm sixteen, and she knew I was...), so it's up for the girls.
 
16/2=8
8+7=15

So I'm not allowed to date a 14-year old if I just turned 16? :p
(which will happen soon, not yet - and I mean the age of 16 not the dating ;))

I thought it was a general given that if you're a teen, you should be dating your own age, really. There's a huge difference in maturity between a 16 year old and a 14 year old, after all.
 
It's just a guideline, which works better around 20-30.

As long as she would turn 15 within half a year or so, I'd say it would be ok.

EDIT: Bill has a good point too, as (generally) there are vastly different levels of maturity between year levels for teens.
 
I thought it was a general given that if you're a teen, you should be dating your own age, really. There's a huge difference in maturity between a 16 year old and a 14 year old, after all.

Hmm... I agree, between some 16 and 14 year olds there is a huge difference in maturity, but the exceptions for teens are so many that it's hard to know which is the exception and which is the normal...

I mean for example I met in the beginning of 2007 a girl that was 19, but you could swear that me and another girl there in our group of 3 (that was 14) were both older than her, from all points of view.

I guess the rule wasn't meant for teens at all in the first place. :)
 
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