3-way alliance

2metraninja

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So, we were playing with the idea for 3-way alliance for so long and finally I managed to catch the leaders of CP and Poly online and get them together to actually start discussing and plan together, because up to now the results from our cooperation were awful.


2metraninja started the chat 7 seconds ago

mzprox joined the chat

mzprox: hey

2metraninja: hey guys

mzprox: i have like 10 minutes now, I will have more time in the afternoon

OT4E joined the chat

2metraninja: hi ot4e

OT4E: hi

2metraninja: glad we made it to here 3 of us

OT4E: in 7 mins i go to the dinner also

2metraninja: this is first meeting, lets hope it sets a good tradition and our cooperation gives fruits

2metraninja: 7 mins are ok

OT4E: why dont we just choose gtalk?

2metraninja: with ot4e we were discussing how much units every one is supposed to have sitting on the RB borders when NAPs end

2metraninja: we dont know how to make conference chat in gtalk

2metraninja: do you?

OT4E: no

OT4E: i doubt that it is impossible

2metraninja: then lets use what we can

2metraninja: so, gents?

OT4E: ok

2metraninja: what are your thoughts about the size and strength of each of us army standing on the RB borders?

mzprox: right now i can only tell that before t170 I will go to nationalism and draft as much unit as possible

2metraninja: but I want to hear your ideas - how much is "much" ?

2metraninja: and how much is enough?

OT4E: as much as possible

2metraninja: drafting in this happy-poor map is quite limited. we already experienced that

2metraninja: each city once

OT4E: happy-poor?

2metraninja: can we speak in numbers?

mzprox: yes, each city once, some twice

OT4E: which map are you talking about?

2metraninja: like 25 units + 10 catapults?

mzprox: I hope to get between 15-20 untis from this, then slave some catapults

2metraninja: 35 units + 15 catapults?

2metraninja: give me idea what you think you will have or what you will be glad to see others have

2metraninja: my idea about the size of any of our 3 armies on RB borders is that RB cant really make attack on any of us three and still be able to defend from the other 2

OT4E: tell us how many you get comfortly, multiply this by 3 and I say it is ok

2metraninja: so, if we have 25 units+10 cats each, this will require RB to have 3x25 units +3x10 cats

2metraninja: 15 units is small

mzprox: we are small [frown]

2metraninja: 15 units is not an offensive corpus

OT4E: RB threaten they will attack us at turn 170, I am sure that they say same to Ottomans

OT4E: this is bluff

OT4E: if we all prepare

OT4E: they wont be able to attack any and will just wait for their doom

2metraninja: yes, this is the idea

mzprox: for us they tried to convince us that tzhey won't attack you (aztec) [smile]

2metraninja: that our combined 3 armies have like 50% more strength from RB's

2metraninja: what RB have now?

2metraninja: they must have like 50 units combined

mzprox: I told them we don't want nap because we don't want to just wait and see how others fall one by one

2metraninja: that is good that you told them

2metraninja: we have relatively equal power army with RB and they must have about 50 units

OT4E: RB has much maces, few knights and eles, several catapults

2metraninja: so, combined, our 3 armies STANDING on the border must count 75 units

2metraninja: if it was to defend now

OT4E: they also started producing a lot of knights

2metraninja: we have 20+ too

OT4E: i think we must come to 120-130 units at least total

mzprox: Rb has many maces, warelephants and knights. my idea was to get enough strength army to stop them expanding, possible strike on them if there is a chance, but most of all we need to get rifles and use them.

2metraninja: 120-130 is good

2metraninja: rifles we will have about the same time as RB

OT4E: if we close borders, guys, they wont get rifles at all

OT4E: consider this

2metraninja: I doubt we can tech them before RB and manage to pfoduce mass enough to make much influence

OT4E: RB has poor economy and they will have to build units

OT4E: not courthouses

mzprox: yes, but Rb's current army will become quite obsolete

2metraninja: do you think closing borders will have such drastic result?

OT4E: they got at 30-40% now

OT4E: oh yes, they will only have routes with WPC...

OT4E: now they get ~240- perturn

2metraninja: 240?!?

2metraninja: wow

2metraninja: I knew it is much, but not THAT much

mzprox: 240 is theri 0% research i believe

OT4E: 240 coins at 0% research

mzprox: maintenance is about 310 gold, so overall income 550

OT4E: they have about 50 trade routes now

2metraninja: 3-4-5 each

mzprox: right now they would lose about 16 -17 commerce if we closed our border (and they have no more route)

OT4E: no most are 2 only

OT4E: WPC can hardly cover more than 20

OT4E: uciv, civfr wont open

OT4E: so it is all up to you

2metraninja: as I said, we will close OB on t 175 and we consider getting in Mercantilism even before this if we can

OT4E: now they already have no extra trade routes. If any of you close, they lose much for sure

mzprox: I told you I will close my borders, but need to finish my spy actions first. our cities are small, the max RB is getting from us are 15-18 commerce/turn

2metraninja: we must agree on what time and compositon of army we rely

2metraninja: I already see disagreement

2metraninja: ot4e says 120-130 units at t170-175

2metraninja: while MZ says 15-20 units each and wait for rifles?

mzprox: I'm not saying each.. I know you have many more already

OT4E: 120-130 = 40 units each

OT4E: 15 of them are catapults

mzprox: I need to go now, but we can continue this at other time

OT4E: so building 25 is mandatory of you want to be at least well-defended

OT4E: ok

mzprox: see ya

2metraninja: ok, meeting here again after lunch

2metraninja: 25 is the bare minimum

2metraninja: more like 25 combat units + 10 catapults

2metraninja: now I like more what we are doing

2metraninja: speaking in numbers always makes me happy

2metraninja: I am heading out too, see you later
 
And the afternoon part:

2metraninja: now we can see if French are really comited to tackling RB. if they say to you that they will send army, this means they are comited. If they use the war with us as excuse, then we cant really rely on them

OT4E: personally I dont think it is good idea, you simply push them into RBs direction

OT4E: let's see if they find mutual language

OT4E: of course they will

2metraninja: they pushed themselves there

OT4E: especially when we all refused to extend NAP with RB

OT4E: they will be generously to any ally

2metraninja: or if they did not knew that we are comited to fight RB and they threaten us with war and set conditions which no one will ever accept? arent they think they are pushing us in to RB direction?

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2metraninja: did they ever thought about opposing RB or they simply want to use everyone and everything to only their own gain?

mzprox: i'm here now

2metraninja: welcome back

mzprox: If I were maya I'd seriously consider a temporary alliance with Egypt. They too need a target or else they will stay small

OT4E: small?

OT4E: it is not about maya at all

OT4E: if i were maya i would think how not to die from fatness

mzprox: relatively small to egypt

OT4E: which is really dangerous for weak heart

2metraninja: yes, fat maya

2metraninja: fat and arrogant

2metraninja: honestly guys, we cant have such pigs as allies

2metraninja: you will laugh your liver out if I send you what messages those french send us

2metraninja: of course, ONLY when there is something THEY want to tell us

2metraninja: otherwise, we never hear of them

2metraninja: you know they have empty lands surrounded by their culture?

2metraninja: I cant find myself a place from anger

mzprox: it was quite asurprise that they used such a tone..

2metraninja: ing fat blackmailers

2metraninja: they try to rob us with a chokolate bar over the phone [big grin]

2metraninja: I want to assure you two that nothing from the agreements we made do not change

2metraninja: we will close borders with RB and we will have army standing on the RB border

2metraninja: we have 60-70 units and they have what? 5-6? and they ask for 3/4 of the zulu land hahah

2metraninja: I can bet they did not expected to be in a serious war and start losing from their cities instead of stealing from ours

mzprox: well we will see how they react [smile]

2metraninja: we finish Zulu in 3 turns and our army is on French borders in 5 turns

mzprox: our primary concern right now is that RB should not grow bigger, that's why we refused nap with them, so we could act if any other would be attacked by them. As for invading Rb: it still depends on many thing. It's quite hard to estime our forces and theirs.

mzprox: Right now all I can promise that i will produce as many troops I can without doing too much harm to my cities

OT4E: you cant produce units without harm

2metraninja: I have told you. we have 60-70 units army and we have like 100K less soldiers than RB

2metraninja: but their pop is way bigger, so I consider our both armies equal in strength

2metraninja: ot4e is right

2metraninja: we all have to make sacrifices, otherwise it just wont work

mzprox: i was talking about too much harm (like putting my cities under unhapyness)

2metraninja: we whipped down to 3-4

2metraninja: half our cities

mzprox: I will slave and draft as much as possible

2metraninja: right now we have 7-t GNP

2metraninja: Even Inca have better GNP than us

2metraninja: we understand well that war requires sacrifices

2metraninja: and we are ready and comited to do them

2metraninja: and I want to hear from you two that you are ready for sacrifices too

mzprox: I also know about sacrifices, one thing: we must know well the possible gains

2metraninja: the possible gains are not much lucrative I think

2metraninja: the immediate goal will be that we force RB to work army instead of economics

2metraninja: btw, congrats on your GM from Economics, MZ

mzprox: thx [smile]

mzprox: too bad I'm not spi and have to wait like 7-8 turns to adopt free market

2metraninja: yes, we find SPI quite useful tbh

OT4E: all traits are good

2metraninja: that is true

2metraninja: just play the strengths of your trait

mzprox: ok, so back to topic: I will slave and draft down all my cities.. I already do that, even my capital is constantly slaved. I was talking about doing slaving too much that we even need to halt growth

2metraninja: in how many units this will translate?

2metraninja: like numbers?

mzprox: I would need to see massive gain to consider this. If we were attacked and it was about survival, then that's one possible reason to do it

2metraninja: standing on your borders with RB?

2metraninja: hmm

OT4E: about gains, we gain from weakening RB. If RB stops conquaring others it is basic gain we can expect. The size of the other gain depends on our efforts. I aim to gain something but not only headacke from this campaign

mzprox: it's quite early to say that

2metraninja: but the idea was different

2metraninja: yes, I agree with Ot4e

OT4E: you are quite cruel to your cap, MZ

OT4E: i thought you will stop slaving after you got it moved

OT4E: but i doubt there was any military purpose

mzprox: this was the fastest way to get oxford running. and now it also has a bank

OT4E: you moved it just to get oxford faster?

mzprox: no, I moved because that tile offers about 15 more commerce

OT4E: sorry for offtop

OT4E: [smile]

mzprox: with bureau, the price of palace will come back quite fast

mzprox: a small thing: I was hoping to get gem from someone

OT4E: as I mentioned our gain is in our hands. The line behind which we gain nothing extra is thin, but the treasure is also big.

mzprox: the only candidate is civfr

2metraninja: [smile] it is not offtopic, I also doubt MZ did any military whips

2metraninja: lets talk correct and without slippery sentences

mzprox: kinda dilemma I have: I want to get to drafting asap and don't want to waste a turn for getting construction, but until then I can't start building catapults [smile]

2metraninja: catapults are nice

OT4E: are vital

2metraninja: [smile] OK, here I caught you, ot4e

2metraninja: I have read in one of the KAC Cups threads where people asked you: "But why you dont have constructions when you already have rifles?

2metraninja: and you said: constructions is expensive tech and catapults are not that important

OT4E: lol

OT4E: i dont remember this

OT4E: it must be long long ago

OT4E: well if you have an option what to get rifles or catapults, I'd say rifles better

OT4E: but it depends on situation

OT4E: now we will have to deal with mixed stacks which are neutralized best by catapults

OT4E: it is stupied to argue

mzprox: ok I will have to leave soon, we can meet for these kind of chats in the future

2metraninja: yes, we need to keep in touch and I am glad from the results from having live chat with us all 3
 
This is the result from today chat:

2metraninja started the chat

OT4E joined the chat

2metraninja: hi guys

mzprox joined the chat

mzprox: hi

2metraninja: so, as I already told ot4e, we have a situation here with French

OT4E: hi

2metraninja: We got finally reply from them. it was short, arrogant and cold mesage, telling us how they are offended how we declared war without any warning [big grin] after they thretened us with war 2 times in row with increasing demands

mzprox: I take it as a refusal of peace/nap

2metraninja: we know from RB that they talk open with French

OT4E: any doubts?

2metraninja: yes, they refused even starting negotiating peace

OT4E: what do you know about French and RB?

2metraninja: we suspect - and this is only suspect still - that they spoke with RB and Rb told them about our expiring NAP and this gave them the courage to decide to keep the war with us after Zulu are dead

2metraninja: French said: "You lost the game" after we told Rb we wont stop pillaging them and RB said they are no longer interested in NAP with us

2metraninja: only thing which stop us from firmly believing they cooperate is the fact that RB and French have no OB yet

OT4E: they will break NAP?

OT4E: or just not extending it?

2metraninja: no, they said they are not going to break the NAP, but was mad at us

OT4E: we have agreed that we are not trading with RB

OT4E: if they do, they violate our agreements

2metraninja: and told they wont extend it

OT4E: last message i got from french was demand to close borders with RB

OT4E: we accepted it

OT4E: we accepted it

2metraninja: aha, so you have agreement with them to keep closed borders with RB?

OT4E: yes, no deals with RB

2metraninja: is it formal thing or just something like good will?

2metraninja: with starting date, etc

OT4E: no...

OT4E: but we use formal language all the time

OT4E: dear mayans, blablabla

2metraninja: I see

mzprox: They don't really need to be allies to have the common enemies

OT4E: it doesnt mean we are close

OT4E: because one day i will write "dear mayans, eat this"

2metraninja: so you get it as firm agreement between you and french about not OB with RB?

OT4E: [big grin]

OT4E: yes

2metraninja: [smile] I hope you tell them this the earliest possible tbh

mzprox: We have nap with french till t180, what about you, Ot4e?

OT4E: 190

2metraninja: this is not really much long

2metraninja: it could have been longer

2metraninja: actually it is longer than we have with you, ot4e [big grin]

OT4E: wanted to say this [smile]

2metraninja: we care to extend it if we agree we 3 depend on each- other and our common well-being is good common goal

2metraninja: now, our first and most important thing we gathered together

2metraninja: how to deal with RB

2metraninja: again, what you guys suspect will RB have at the point of t170 - t175?

OT4E: yes, we need to extend it, but I hoped we would come to more detailed deal

2metraninja: and what each of us will need to have at their borders so we are AT LEAST safe from RB attack?

2metraninja: yes, this is a step in exactly this detailed agreement

2metraninja: we have to be able to rely on each - other

OT4E: RBs economy produce ~170gpt

OT4E: this could shrink if ottomans closes border

OT4E: and if you adopt mercantilism they wont be able to maintain much and develop

2metraninja: only 170 gpt????

2metraninja: are you sure?

OT4E: this was for last few turns

2metraninja: hmm.. is it possible they run not 100% gold?

OT4E: and they are building markets and grocers in some cities

OT4E: no it is 100% gold

2metraninja: [smile] war is costly indeed

2metraninja: we know well

2metraninja: newly captured city size 5 costs 15+ gpt maintenance only in itself

OT4E: from my view its very important to break their trade routes now

OT4E: at 175 turn it will be late and they might get to something new

OT4E: and we will have to deal with new level of reinforcements

mzprox: we will close our borders with them in 4 turns at most

OT4E: 2metra, what's with mercantilism?

OT4E: will you be able to adopt it soon?

OT4E: and how soon if so

2metraninja: mercantilism

mzprox: Egypt's recent advance in the west put our plans in dagner that we will be able to do the stealings.. if they destroy the target city we can not steal nationalism, we have to get it ourselves which will slow down our path towards rifling. So quite a lot depends on it.

2metraninja: we were hoping to be back to developing, but now we need to whip knights instead of settlers

OT4E: what city?

mzprox: second city from our border

OT4E: great spy gives enough to steal nationalism without religion

mzprox: yes, but wouldn't it be a waste? [smile]

OT4E: isnt it a waste supplying them with trade routes?

OT4E: i am pretty sure that if we both bring religion to their city

OT4E: they will just raze it

mzprox: that's my problem too :/

mzprox: but at least those cities will be gone [smile]

OT4E: did you consider bringing religion to the cap?

OT4E: there is academy and I doubt they will raze it so easy

2metraninja: only closing borders with CivFR costed us like 12 GPT

2metraninja: if RB lose 3 major trade partners this will cost them like 40 gpt

mzprox: I will think about this.. see if i still have the time to move there. my plan was quite good.. hiding my misionary so i would only convert after rb took my city.. but unfortunately they managed to make a push with workers/engineering so if I won1t convert the city now they will see my missionary and probably close the borders

mzprox: ..once they get the city

OT4E: you can keep it 3 tiles behind

OT4E: they will still see?

OT4E: with hill/sentry?

mzprox: yes, because they will move forward our border city with the inca.. which brings up an other point.. we might declare war on inca in the next turn

mzprox: in any case, 2metra, pls not end your turn before I had chance to take alook [smile]

2metraninja: actually our main concern is how we guarantee to each-other our safety and our comittment in actually fighting RB as they will want fight once we blockade them all

OT4E: how can you guarantee?

OT4E: by not extending NAP and bringing military to the borders at the key turn

OT4E: anything else you want?

OT4E: RB wont be able to attack any and will just keep inside

OT4E: they might strike one of us, right, but in this case we can hardly guarantee anything

mzprox: stealing our not we will convert to nationalism at the end of our golden age, and start drafting janissaries. that army at least is enough to secure our borders and if their main army is not next to us we can raid inca land , even with galleys. Sending help by t170 is more problematic, but some janissary sure

OT4E: do you want to discuss compensation if they attack just one of us?

mzprox: our=or

mzprox: normally we wouldn1t want to start war at t170

OT4E: well my consideration is the following

mzprox: Now how i see it we only be at war with rb at t170 if they either attack us or Aztec

OT4E: they wont attack Ottomans because of jannissary and small border line and they wont attack India because of single border line

OT4E: but they can more likely attack us

OT4E: this is possible scenario

OT4E: and this will give you great opportunity

OT4E: and possibly destroys ours...

OT4E: in this case some kind of compensation would be welcome or in mirrored situation if they attack one of you, guys

2metraninja: I would like everyone tells how much army any of us having at the borders he think will be sufficient

OT4E: as much as possible

2metraninja: and any of us give his word that he will have this army there at the agreed turn and will not hesitate a second to use them if RB attack any of the other 2

OT4E: lets say RB can preapare attack with 100 units

OT4E: and still keep 20-30 at other fronts

OT4E: they key point of this is to be able to deal with that 20-30 units without losing much

OT4E: this will demand them to weaken their possible 100 unit-stack

mzprox: hmm is is consturction which allows goin through river roads without penalty or engineering?

OT4E: construction

mzprox: hmm thats good.. then i can relocate my missionary

2metraninja: about the 100-units RB stack

2metraninja: this is why I wanted we to discuss what we expect from RB

mzprox: back to topic: one turn difference could make 5 riflemen and if we steal nationalism we get riflemen 3 turns sooner. ofc we we would get rifles later we would have some janissary instead, but it wouldn't be a good deal to draft janissaries when a few turns later we could get rifles

2metraninja: right now with aggressive French on our east borders "as much as possible" needs to be formulated, because we are in active hot dirty war already

mzprox: we we= if we

mzprox: I estimate to get rifling in t170-172

2metraninja: well, that is great date

2metraninja: I need to check our own, but I doubt we will be ready at this date

2metraninja: is this 1280+ GNP yours, MZ?

mzprox: yes, but we are in golden age

OT4E: yes

OT4E: you could still techs from Civfr better

2metraninja: still quite good

mzprox: I will also have to divide my armies. I guess i will not extend my nap with maya, but then i need defense

2metraninja: [smile] to not use other superlatives

2metraninja: yes, this is other thig I was about to ask you 2

2metraninja: that you dont extend NAP with Maya and possibly make pressure on them when the time comes

OT4E: this depends to what they do with our agreements

2metraninja: I wanted Maya either our firm supporter or dead, as I said many times, but right now it seems we will have to just live with the thinking they are there and they wish our death

2metraninja: yes, of course, if they send army to help our big deal, this will speak a lot

OT4E: if they refrain from dealing with RB and supply us this is hardly possible

2metraninja: yes, yes, I understand this well

OT4E: they are closest civ to rifling now

2metraninja: if they act in good faith against RB, we have no complains and we will have to deal with them on our own

OT4E: we need to think about UCIV also

OT4E: we need to involve them into something

2metraninja: they spend all their gold on upgrades right now

2metraninja: yes, uciv

2metraninja: I meant french spend their money on upgrades

2metraninja: I would still want that we have clear vision on what is expected from each of us 3 in numbers

2metraninja: also from possible French supply and Uciv involvement

OT4E: this is bad news

OT4E: if they upgrade they are going to use it soon

mzprox: with uciv we have quite a long nap till t210

mzprox: i guess 2metra meant the maya who are doing the upgrades

2metraninja: yes, t220 for us with Uciv too

2metraninja: yes, yes, Maya are doing upgrades

OT4E: bah

2metraninja: not Uciv

OT4E: i need to upgrade NAP with UCIV then

mzprox: good luck with that.. when i finally was able to talk with their diplomat hi didn't know who am I and who are the ottomans, where are we on the map etc [smile]

OT4E: this seems to be a role they play

OT4E: not knowing any

OT4E: not taking part in any

OT4E: and just making long peace with all

OT4E: those guys are satisfied with all they have

OT4E: we are doing them great favor

mzprox: their economy guy is quite good

mzprox: they are not fin, not building wonders, but their gnp is quite high, big advanced cities, universities, markets etc

OT4E: they have rathaus

OT4E: best pick for this map imho

mzprox: yes

2metraninja: yes, make long NAP with Uciv if possible Ot4e

2metraninja: but lets get back and concentrate on our main topic - RB

2metraninja: so, how we 3 are going to secure the safety of each-others?

2metraninja: we said this already - with standing army

2metraninja: let me hear how much any of you will have on t170-t175

mzprox: as I have said: it's not easy to calculate. with drafting it's easy to raise army, and if it's necessary - I mean it's a matter of victory or defeat- we could live with 9 unhappyness from drafting for a while, but normally I would say maximum two (so 2*3 unhappyness) at a time. with that my army not counting the minimum garrison (warriors and such) would be about 50-55 units by t175.

mzprox: then it must be dvivded somehow between east and west

OT4E: at west you can just start preparing rifles to make it secure, right?

mzprox: it seems like that now.. but who really knows how things will look like in 20 turns?

OT4E: i need some time to prepare precious calculations

OT4E: tell us your plan, 2metra

OT4E: 50 units seems to be realistic

mzprox: ok, I'm off for now, ttyl

Such vague wording from MZ makes my neck goosebumps.
 
Hopefully we can avoid making CivFr into a free ally for RB :(

OT4E said what I am thinking. It is only natural for CivFr to become allies with RB. Our war with CivFr is a public knowledge, RB are not fools, CivFr do not seem to be fools, either :(I see no way of avoiding it other than having NAP with RB - unless we will be extremely lucky and this alliance will not happen for personal reasons.

And as before, the only party truely committed to anti-RB alliance seems to be CP. And they have good reasons - they think they will be RB's next target and based on OT4E explanation it seems to make sense.
 
When discussing about our NAP expiring soon OT4E says "yes, we need to extend it, but I hoped we would come to more detailed deal". To me this sounds like he would like to have a firmer alliance. We should start informal discussion to try fish out as much from him as possible. 2metra, next time you chat with OT4E, may I ask you to probe on the subject?

BTW, do we want to help CP and Poly in their espionage endeavours? If we do, they could just gift us the missionaries and we'll plant the religion to the cities they want.
 
When discussing about our NAP expiring soon OT4E says "yes, we need to extend it, but I hoped we would come to more detailed deal". To me this sounds like he would like to have a firmer alliance. We should start informal discussion to try fish out as much from him as possible. 2metra, next time you chat with OT4E, may I ask you to probe on the subject?

BTW, do we want to help CP and Poly in their espionage endeavours? If we do, they could just gift us the missionaries and we'll plant the religion to the cities they want.

Yeah, I completely agree with Aivoturso. I think we should push NAP extensions now, not talking about units.

Wrt missionaries, it would be better if our allies send them to CivFr cities, as they are not at war. Of course, if they would agree to do this for us.
 
And how our chat with Ot4e continues:

2metraninja: hi there
2metraninja: at last :)
Ot4e: hi
2metraninja: its been a while, I've been on vacation
Ot4e: how was that?
Ot4e: как прошло?
2metraninja: ochen horosho

Ot4e: about the game
Ot4e: congrats with zulu
2metraninja: yeah, thanks
2metraninja: it was executed as expected
Ot4e: i havent got any reply from frenchies, and didnt send them any proposal about you so far
2metraninja: the greedy but sensitive French we did not expected to be honest
Ot4e: i dont like talking with the stone wall
Ot4e: i will do this today but still not sure what to send
2metraninja: we got answer at last
Ot4e: but i will invent something
2metraninja: it was short, arrogant and cold mesage
Ot4e: so, not even NAP or peace proposal?
2metraninja: telling us how they are offended how we declared war without any warning :D
2metraninja: after they thretened us with war 2 times in row
2metraninja: with increasing demands
Ot4e: you didnt kill their great person, right?
2metraninja: no, we spared it
2metraninja: but they acuse us of not keeping a deal. which deal we told them 2 times we want to renegotiate, because we see no good will on their side, but they said nothing about deals and just asked for the zulu land and thretened us with war
2metraninja: please, come to the 3-way chat, MZ is here too
Ot4e: this is act of good will, that you spared it
2metraninja: http://us12.chatzy.com/68011063689707
Ot4e: i remember that you spared, but wasnt sure what it means :)
2metraninja: :) MZ having 50 units divided on two fronts is not serious
2metraninja: we have more than 50 units right now
Ot4e: i understood that he will have 50 at our front and will have to split it later
Ot4e: i also cant understand how can it happend that he has 50 units ready but still cant attack
Ot4e: and it is important if he has them by turn 170
Ot4e: not by turn 175
Ot4e: or not even completely ready at turn 175
2metraninja: this is my concern, that he will make army ONLY if he is directly attacked
2metraninja: I want to know that my allies are commited and ready to protect each-other on the minute
2metraninja: I seen how people promise to bring help, and seemingly they do, but they react too slow and their allies get hurt while the slow ones are finally ready
2metraninja: I have the feeling we will be most vulnerable with having to defend 2 fronts from the very beginning. and I am very afraid we will be targeted by coordinated attack from RB and CivFR, to which we will not stand if we cant rely on you and on MZ to throw armies at RB without even hesitating for a blink of an ye
2metraninja: yey
2metraninja: eye
Ot4e: i know the difference between doing enough in the defence and being prepared to attack
2metraninja: from how you speak, I am quite sure you know the difference and that you will be there with the units and not hesitate to use them. what worries me is MZ will not show such readiness
2metraninja: what is even funnier is he said to me once he is afraid you will not be prepared for clash with RB
2metraninja: all this smells not good
Ot4e: i cant brag to get rifles so early
Ot4e: but we will prepare what we have
2metraninja: same with us
2metraninja: but having rifling early does not means you will throw rifles at RB if it is required
2metraninja: it means only you COULD if you wish
Ot4e: well if MZ fears that I wont be prepared, doesnt this mean that he has serious intentions
Ot4e: or looking for an excuse?
2metraninja: sounded as the latter
2metraninja: and out of a sudden when I was talking about "allies" he said "technically we are not allies yet" (with pulling out tongue emoticon, but still...)
2metraninja: and this is what I want to put out straight
2metraninja: everyone to say that he is commited and how much commitment it is, so everyone can judge if this suits him
2metraninja: I dont want our team to be under coordinated double attack from RB and CivFR and just then MZ (and you, speaking theoretically) to start prepare army, which can be sent in some 5-6 turns, when the enemy armies will be at our capitol
2metraninja: untill now, I was calm that even if someone is not so prepared to invade RB immediately, we will still be OK, because we will have big enough army to fend off RB ourselves while the late ally/es build enough army. but now, having to fight war with aggressive and wealthy French with their secure backyard, I am not so sure I can provide security for our own team from RB anymore. and because of this I want assurances from you and MZ
Ot4e: i still dont understand what has changed
2metraninja: changed is that I was ready to cover some less ready ally
2metraninja: now I dont have that luxury
Ot4e: technically and formally we are not allies
2metraninja: as I have to keep whole army on French border
Ot4e: i am trying to change this all the time
2metraninja: I am trying to achieve this too
Ot4e: but you all refrained from giving us any obligations
2metraninja: :) how so if I try to bring this issue with the specific numbers few times already
2metraninja: and I said that we will bring whatever is needed from us
Ot4e: we all promised to bring units, last time we discussed the number it was 40
Ot4e: you said it is ok
2metraninja: just want to hear what you and MZ will bring and that you will have it there and will not hesitate to use it. just as what I intend to do
Ot4e: i dont expect that you drop everything and defend us
Ot4e: not sure what kind of help you do expect from us except what we have allready discussed
2metraninja: you mentioned that you expect us to bring most of the alliance units and I was somewhat OK with that, but now we cant bring most of the alliance units
2metraninja: we even need to have assurances from our allies we will be protected if it comes to this
2metraninja: I expect that if everyone say 40 units at t175
2metraninja: this means EVERYONE have 40 units standing 1 tile from RB border at t 175
2metraninja: AND
2metraninja: if RB makes a move towards any of us
2metraninja: then all other 2 invade RB like one - in the same turn
2metraninja: this is how I see our alliance and achieving mutual security
Ot4e: so I do
2metraninja: this is good to hear from you
2metraninja: now, we have to hear the same from MZ :)
Ot4e: but there are circumstances that are important
Ot4e: we expect to keep observation of their cities and some territory with spies
2metraninja: that is OK of course
2metraninja: to keep eye on them
Ot4e: and lets say if we get 50 units and see 50 units there in their city
Ot4e: we will not go in
Ot4e: and dont expect that you make suicidal attack either
2metraninja: :) if we allow them to have the same number of units against EVERY ONE of us, then we are doing something really bad
Ot4e: in this case our job is to keep their 50 units home
Ot4e: so probably this means that they wont have 50 units at ottomans front
2metraninja: of course we will discuss tactic each turn
2metraninja: and see what is to be done
2metraninja: but to have standing army is imperative
2metraninja: not as MZ explain it: "If we need, we can draft heavy and being able to defend"
2metraninja: this is not alliance, this is.. just being good neighbors
2metraninja: even less
Ot4e: he fears to enter into closer relationship
2metraninja: because when good neighbors see your house burning, they jump to fight the fire, as they know their house is next
2metraninja: yes, he is individualist
2metraninja: I've been ally with him
2metraninja: in previous games
2metraninja: 2 guys attacked him
2metraninja: I came to help him because otherwise I would had to face very strong alliance who divide his land
2metraninja: and I hated one of those greedy guys too
2metraninja: so, I prepared army and attacked one of his attackers
2metraninja: I started to take cities from him and they came quick to realisation that I am their main problem
2metraninja: I took like more than half of the cities from the one guy
2metraninja: and even razed 1 city of the next
2metraninja: they stopped sending army towards MZ
2metraninja: all army they produced they throw at me
2metraninja: in one moment, I cant advance anymore
2metraninja: and we are in trenches.
2metraninja: I tell MZ - OK, help me a bit, attack them from behind
2metraninja: he says: but my army is not strong
2metraninja: well, how it come I can fight 2 other guys, while you tech?
2metraninja: one thing cant be denyed to him - he did not betrayed me
2metraninja: those 2 guys promised him ton of things to sign peace with them, so tehy can concentrate on me
2metraninja: he did not betrayed me
2metraninja: but he did not sent real army neither
2metraninja: he happily teched to Liberalism, built OU (he loves OU), then few turns from Rifles, our enemies surrendered and agreed on peace, where I keep some land from them
2metraninja: but MZ did not made big efforts to help me with military
Ot4e: i see that he is not that simple as he tries to look
2metraninja: lol, but of course
2metraninja: also, he is very good player
2metraninja: he is the best at Apolyton
2metraninja: I managed to beat him in one game where we played
2metraninja: and in the other, this one, which I described, he won
2metraninja: well, I had a sub, who did not played 30 turns for me in the beginning, so I was well behind when I got to play the game
2metraninja: and we were allies in the end, so we won as team, and he was Egypt on Mediterranean map, while I was Bulgaria with Balkan Peninsula only peaks and enemies from all sides, but it was his win at the end
Ot4e: you are true patriot
2metraninja: :) I am
Ot4e: Rb is not that stupied to attack him
Ot4e: this is my main concern
2metraninja: you think so?
Ot4e: why would they?
2metraninja: I dont know
2metraninja: the same reason they would attack us or you?
2metraninja: the suspect we have alliance and will suspect even more
2metraninja: when we all close borders and bring armies on borders
2metraninja: I've been quite a few times target of dogpiles and secret alliances plotting to kill me
2metraninja: I know what works best
2metraninja: I use the priceless time when the plotters are not so sure what is going on and who will do the actual fighting for the alliance, concentrate my power, and hit one of them who seems the most exalted. He bends, start losing cities, starts to call his buddies for help, but help is not so easily organized and sent...
2metraninja: he start to insult them how they leave him to die and they start to feel not so sure it is a good idea to be on his place.. maybe they can tech a bit more while we fight and be better prepared next time...
2metraninja: no. no one will be better prepared next time :)
2metraninja: everyone is on his own again
2metraninja: dogpile dismissed
2metraninja: end of story, I steamroll them one after another in 20-30 turns
2metraninja: I fear this will happen here with RB too
2metraninja: and that is why I insist we have tight schedules and talk in numbers
2metraninja: what you think? sounds realistic?
Ot4e: I dont have such experience tbh, but theoretically your words sounds reasonable. Bad organized dogpiles are doomed.
Ot4e: But i dont think that just speaking in numbers can help
Ot4e: dont get me wrong
Ot4e: we can feed each other with numbers for a while
Ot4e: but the weakest link can still jump into bushes
Ot4e: if we dont discuss deeper obligations we will remain as "good neighbours"
2metraninja: :) even worse than good neighbors as I already said
Ot4e: i asked MZ who we are?
Ot4e: while we were discussing the issue with INCA
2metraninja: and?
Ot4e: he said that he can only ensure me that he wont extend NAP with RB
Ot4e: this is still very much if it is honest
Ot4e: because if you cant promise them NAP you can promise anything to them
2metraninja: yes, it is much
Ot4e: but it is "good neighbour" behaviour
2metraninja: exactly
2metraninja: ok, I am all ears what is your idea for more specific obligations?
Ot4e: we are open to discuss it :) I am not sure how to perform it formally. But it is something which will solve the current problem with calling each other "ally"
2metraninja: heheh
Ot4e: i proposed that we agree to compensate each others "extra" loses caused by slow-actions of each other... I know that it is really bad agreement I used to refrain from. But may be you know better way to motivate each other to protect allies
2metraninja: I dont know better way of motivating each-other than having that army there and gave your word to use it to protect your ally
2metraninja: compensating I dont think will work
2metraninja: in theory - maybe
2metraninja: but how will work in practice? I lose 1 good city. how you compensate me?
2metraninja: if I lose 10 knights because you did not showed with your maces, maybe you can give me 10 knights. but when? and how? and if you can build 10 more knights just like that, what stopped you from building them in first place and send them in the fight?
2metraninja: not to mention that until you build 10 knights and send them to gift me to compensate me, there is a good chance that you dont have who to compensate
2metraninja: money? but how money will save my cities from the advancing enemy?
2metraninja: this is the best thing I know: to give schedule. Like: On t160 I will have 8 catapults produced. I wil have gunpowder and start producing muskets. on t165, I will already have 15 catapults and have whipped/drafted 15 muskets. on t 170 I will have 10 more knights to add to this force. on t175 I will add 5 more muskets and 5 more knights to this group and will have them 2 tiles of RB border.
Ot4e: i know that compensation wont work literally
Ot4e: [16:02] 2metraninja:

<<< and if you can build 10 more knights just like that, what stopped you from building them in first place and send them in the fight?
Ot4e: this is the key point
2metraninja: exactly
Ot4e: but you are right
Ot4e: no idea how to use it practically
Ot4e: schedule is enough for you?
Ot4e: i dont understand how it works
Ot4e: i say I bring 10 catapults to turn 170
Ot4e: you say 10 is not enough, bring 20
Ot4e: or you cant say "bring 20"
2metraninja: :) I can
Ot4e: i dont know how we find mutual language
2metraninja: we agree that 50 units each, 15 of which are cats is OK
Ot4e: i say i bring horse archers
Ot4e: you say, bring tanks
Ot4e: :D
2metraninja: :) you are veteran, you know what can measure up with 15 cats, 25 muskets and 10 knights
2metraninja: if you say: I have maces only, then bring 5 more
2metraninja: 30 maces instead of 25 muskets
2metraninja: or if you say: I have a lot of HA, then bring 20 HAs instead of 10 knights
2metraninja: you know what a solid army can look like
2metraninja: such 50 units strong army can stop 30 rifles in the open
Ot4e: last time you were happy with the number of 40, now you are pushing that 50 is not enough
Ot4e: you can raise value each turn
2metraninja: :) you said 50 units
2metraninja: in the chat
2metraninja: and I am following
2metraninja: now, once we give our words we are allies, we can follow and adapt
2metraninja: if we see RB is not preparing more army, then it may turn out that even only 30 units each is OK
2metraninja: if RB whip 50 more to their current 60-70 units, then even 50 units each of us is not enough
Ot4e: this is of course ok
2metraninja: all those are only my thoughts
Ot4e: no idea why we are even discussing this, of course we will follow our words
Ot4e: and make armies
Ot4e: 50+-15 units
2metraninja: we are discussing this, because I fear MZ will keep his usual play - he builds army ONLY if he is forced to
Ot4e: but are you ready to share all the plans among us
Ot4e: what you research
Ot4e: what you build
Ot4e: where you stand
2metraninja: of course
Ot4e: what you get
2metraninja: of course
2metraninja: this is the way to have good allies
2metraninja: otherwise, just pleasant neighbors :)
Ot4e: i havent noticed that anyone of us shared some plans, except MZ to my wonder
2metraninja: well, you never asked, but we talk with MZ about techs, etc
Ot4e: you never ask
2metraninja: for example, we got agreement that he gets the GM from Econ
Ot4e: it is what I answered RB about longer NAP:)
2metraninja: tbh, I dont even know what techs you have. I think of you like you are big enough boy to can manage your own
Ot4e: you have alphabet
2metraninja: it is MZ who always seems to have doubts, have plans and insecirities and he ask me
Ot4e: we have it
2metraninja: yes, I do have
Ot4e: i dont believe your demohackers are eating their breads for free
2metraninja: but we are more concentrated on our own research, why would we try to follow your research or control it?
2metraninja: heheh
2metraninja: the difference is we see you as friendly nation
2metraninja: and we dont have to keep eye on you all the time
2metraninja: we are happy with your successes
2metraninja: this gives us stronger ally
Ot4e: yeah successes
Ot4e: well
Ot4e: yes
Ot4e: but we havent crossed the line behind which we share all the information about our development
Ot4e: each other
Ot4e: did we?
Ot4e: this line passes between good neighbours and allies
[ | Edited 16:24:55] Ot4e: and what did MZ promise you for taking economics safely?
Ot4e: this must be agreed a while before
Ot4e: if you negotiated this
Ot4e: because you were not really that close lately to require any negotiations
Ot4e: imho
2metraninja: I am absolutely honest when I say we consider you and MZ as our allies and we are of course good-intended with you both
2metraninja: it was a bit after we got Taj
Ot4e: for me it would be much more simple if we say we are allies. This constructions with "good neighbours" tbh confuses me so much
Ot4e: i feel that we are good neighbour of civfr when they are discussing how to divide us with RB
2metraninja: heheh, but this "good neighbors" was only to picture what we feel being sometimes, not that we think it is a good thing
2metraninja: :) CivFR are a big issue on their own
2metraninja: those guys play it insulted
2metraninja: and threatened us that we lost the game after we told them it will serve none of our interests if we keep fighting.
2metraninja: are they playing so insulted that they will throw their own chances for win only to fight us endlessly and thus giving the win to RB?
2metraninja: or they are so over-estimating themselves that they believe they can actually kill us???
2metraninja: it will be pity if it is the first one, that they decided to fight us endlessly and give RB the win
Ot4e: stop, i am not telepathist
2metraninja: :) lol, see - I am discussing with you our deepest fears and hopes and you say "stop" then you say: but we dont discuss our plans
Ot4e: i just mentioned that we dont give each other as much info we could. But I like your way of thinking
Ot4e: you could notice that I am quite open with you
Ot4e: and give you my thoughts
Ot4e: but not because we have signed something
Ot4e: returning to civfr
Ot4e: i think they will fear to enter war with you
Ot4e: and will rethink about this
2metraninja: yes, this is how we build trust to each-other
Ot4e: doing all dirty job with our hands is more suitable for them I beleive
2metraninja: I just dont know about them. they sounded so cold and arrogant, I thought we must be missing something, because as we see things, they are not in their favor at all
Ot4e: at leaast they answered
2metraninja: yes, I believed they are bunch of bluffers, who threaten us with war but will bend and back quick when they see our army
2metraninja: but now they act decisively
2metraninja: they razed one size 7 city we captured from Zulus
Ot4e: how?
2metraninja: how they razed it?
Ot4e: yes
Ot4e: you didnt protect?
2metraninja: it was far - far behind zulu lines
2metraninja: we sent stack of knights to capture it with surprise
2metraninja: and we see 1 French knight standing right beside it
2metraninja: and we are afraid zulu will empty again their city so French can take it easy, while throwing all their army at us
2metraninja: and we decide to storm the city and take it first, so we have claims on it. also, we believed we will capture Zulu capitol in the same turn, so we eliminate Zulus and we start negotiations with French
2metraninja: but Zulus are built defense already in that city
2metraninja: all they emptied from their border city with Frenc, they put there
2metraninja: and they whip elephant, upgrade impi
2metraninja: we are afraid they whipped more elepanth
2metraninja: and we storm
2metraninja: but we have like 6 knights to capture the city
2metraninja: we lose one and we capture it with just 1 knight in it
2metraninja: and then we send letter to French telling them we consider this the end of the reason to fight
2metraninja: as Zulus are no more
2metraninja: and everyone took whatever he could
2metraninja: we tell them we know they can attack our newly captured city and take it, but we prefer not go there, as we will consider this as if they want real war and we have 50 units 2-3 turns away
2metraninja: they attack and raze it in answer
Ot4e: are you going to attack them in the response?
2metraninja: I wanted to just secure the front and if they come with their main stack, destroy it
2metraninja: but as you know I was on vacation
2metraninja: and the general who makes war turns attacks their knights in responce
2metraninja: but we see they have somewhat serious stack and they bring more army
2metraninja: and they collect money to upgrade more units
Ot4e: it is better if they collect money than researching
2metraninja: a lot of guys in the team shout for full scale war, to mobilize and go in offense, but I calm them down for now
2metraninja: I want to try once more diplomacy, where all start to shout at me we have nothing more to tell them
2metraninja: and shout for blood :)
Ot4e: they have temper
Ot4e: i mean your team
2metraninja: yes, quite a temper

2metraninja: damn, I have to go, will talk to you from home
 
I read this whole chat. Here are my opinions/observations:

1. Ot4e wants a formalized alliance with the following:
a. We will consider him in an alliance with us and commit to treat him as our main ally, putting CP before any others - like marriage:).
b. We give him a promise to defend him to the last man like defending our own lands if anyone attacks him, including/especially that if RB attacks CP, we will DoW RB, enter the War zone and coordinate all attacks with CP like a team.
c. We will end all trade with RB when the NAP ends and not make any new deals with them. No OB, no resources, no nothing.
d. We will share with him all our plans, trades, NAPs, espy infos, Wonders plans, tech plans etc, just as you would share with a teammate in a team game.

We should send that to CP right away and ask Ot4e to agree to do the same for us, to put that issue aside and get our alliance locked in for the end of the NAP.

2. MZ is not going to commit. He is doing two things:
a. He is keeping in the discussion so that if Poly gets attacked, he has allies to call to for help.
b. He has no intention of building many soldiers to put on the RB border. He only intends to use the alliance to help himself if/when Poly is attacked. So we must leave it at that. MZ will cut off trade with RB and close borders... Nothing more. If we expect more we will just be disappointed.

3. Ot4e has a friendship with CivFr. He will not help us against them. So our alliance with CP must take that into account.

4. CivFr is not allies with RB just yet, in fact they act against them in some ways, so there is still hope that we can neutralize the CivFr threat without eliminating them, but it will take Ot4e's help, and he is not willing to help us do that until we have a set-in-stone clear alliance pact with him... So let's get that done first.
 
:) All of your observations tonight are straight to the point. Some of them I was sure all the time, while some I knew, but preferred to not believe. Point stays that this is the situation as it is.

We have no other choice than to ally close with Ot4e, right?
 
:) All of your observations tonight are straight to the point. Some of them I was sure all the time, while some I knew, but preferred to not believe. Point stays that this is the situation as it is.

We have no other choice than to ally close with Ot4e, right?

OT4E seems very reliable and honest ally so far. But defending his own lands as our own - does it not go to far? Are we honestly saying that when it will come to choosing between our cities being taken by CivFr or his by RB we will forget which city is whose?

If we are going to commit to CP like that they *have to* promise us to help us against CivFr. All deals can be renegotiated, if CP is serious about our alliance and want marriage type commitment, they should do it.

Otherwise, our agreement would be: If CP gets attacked by RB, we will endanger our own cities to help them. If there will be risk of CivFr taking our own cities, CP would do nothing :(
 
But defending his own lands as our own - does it not go to far? Are we honestly saying that when it will come to choosing between our cities being taken by CivFr or his by RB we will forget which city is whose?
This is how real allies act. I've been in such alliances and seen that myself. We choose based on what serves best the alliance's power and not individual nations.

I cant tell if we can have such alliance with ot4e right now though.
 
Otherwise, our agreement would be: If CP gets attacked by RB, we will endanger our own cities to help them. If there will be risk of CivFr taking our own cities, CP would do nothing
Hmm.. very good point...
 
IMO, we should push towards real alliance with CP. Maga is right, though. For that to happen, alliance cannot happen to full extent without CP acting against CivFr. We cannot be full allies if we only share half of the enemies.
 
This is how real allies act. I've been in such alliances and seen that myself. We choose based on what serves best the alliance's power and not individual nations.

I cant tell if we can have such alliance with ot4e right now though.

I agree that such an alliance would be very desirable, if possible. But OT4E cannot commit to us that way before turn 190. That is why I think it would be best for us to get a NAP with RB until then - or for OT4E to try to renegotiate his agreement with CivFr, if possible.

Marriage is great, I agree. But acting as a wife when other party consider themselves not married yet - a bit less appealing ;), although sometimes leads to a happy marriage, too :)

EDIT: Cross post with 2metra and Aivo.

Do not get me wrong, I have nothing against OT4E - he seems like a great ally-material, actually: honest, reliable and one of the best ladder players in the world :D. If we will be honest with him, I think chances are he will see we have a fair point. And unsuccessful RB dogpile is in nobody's interest, better to wait for a more opportune moment.
 
Marriage is great, I agree. But acting as a wife when other party consider themselves not married yet - a bit less appealing ,
LOL, you are in the right mood tonight :D

although sometimes leads to a happy marriage, too
Hahaahhhh.. oh, this was the best part...
 
LOL, you are in the right mood tonight :D

Hahaahhhh.. oh, this was the best part...

Yeah, "things we do for love" ;)

But I hope we are not in love with OT4E, are we? So let us negotiate it as a business deal it is!
 
Another thought I had as I was at work... If we and CP show our teeth to RB while MZ chooses to just develop and not build any real army to oppose RB, what will happen? Thinking about this logically...

RB will sense that CP and CFC are allied at least. Sothere is at least a good possibility that they will not want to jeopardize their lead by attacking either of us, or provoking either of us.

On the other hand, if Poly tries to develop without building the large standing Army on the RB border, there is a good possibility that RB will just continue to expand in Poly's direction, reasoning that Poly is too weak to do anything about it while they stay away from the large hostile Armies that we put on their border. So essentially, by refusing (or delaying building their army, Poly will make themselves a "cold" target for RB... Not for attacking maybe, but for pushing around with Pink-dots and such.

Maybe ultimately, this will get Poly to build an Army and DEMAND that the alliance invade RB to keep RB from cornering them.
 
We have no other choice than to ally close with Ot4e, right?
Yes, I think this is correct, but there is something else... I guess this can also be directed @ Maga, and also @ Aivo too...

2metra knows this already very well but as a reminder... To be the "Leader" of an alliance, you must be MORE generous in your commitments and promises than your partners. To gain confidence and trust, you must be willing to give more than the others do. I have seen more alliances and friendly neighbors fall apart over this principle...

When everyone is obsessed that he must get "equal" contributions from the other guy, everyone just ends up counting each others' jellybeans and yelling "Hey! This deal give you 3 or 4 more jellybean than I got! We MUST HAVE THE SAME OR NO DEAL!!" Then the other accuses that he is really the one who gets the poor deal because he has more yellow and orange, while you get the red and pink ones which taste better... and so-on... In the end there is no deal, no alliance.

We must be ready to promise more than what we get back. In this way we get a devoted ally, which in the end is worth more than anything else. Let me ask you all which of these sounds more like someone you would want on your side...

1. "I will walk and fight side by side with you. Our destiny will be intertwined. My victory will be be yours, and your loss will be mine, and if you must die, we will die together, because I will never stop fighting for you until you are safe or we are both dead. Side by side we will be brothers until all the other enemies are defeated."

2. "I will be your ally and partner. We will share in all things equally. I will always insist that I get the same as you, and I expect you to do the same with me. Not only will we be equal in all things, but we will fight to protect each other. Of course, neither of us will be expected to sacrifice his own welfare to save the other but all I ask you to promise, and all I promise in return, is that we will do our absoulute best to protect each other."
 
Yes, I think this is correct, but there is something else... I guess this can also be directed @ Maga, and also @ Aivo too...

2metra knows this already very well but as a reminder... To be the "Leader" of an alliance, you must be MORE generous in your commitments and promises than your partners. To gain confidence and trust, you must be willing to give more than the others do. I have seen more alliances and friendly neighbors fall apart over this principle...

When everyone is obsessed that he must get "equal" contributions from the other guy, everyone just ends up counting each others' jellybeans and yelling "Hey! This deal give you 3 or 4 more jellybean than I got! We MUST HAVE THE SAME OR NO DEAL!!" Then the other accuses that he is really the one who gets the poor deal because he has more yellow and orange, while you get the red and pink ones which taste better... and so-on... In the end there is no deal, no alliance.

We must be ready to promise more than what we get back. In this way we get a devoted ally, which in the end is worth more than anything else. Let me ask you all which of these sounds more like someone you would want on your side...

1. "I will walk and fight side by side with you. Our destiny will be intertwined. My victory will be be yours, and your loss will be mine, and if you must die, we will die together, because I will never stop fighting for you until you are safe or we are both dead. Side by side we will be brothers until all the other enemies are defeated."

2. "I will be your ally and partner. We will share in all things equally. I will always insist that I get the same as you, and I expect you to do the same with me. Not only will we be equal in all things, but we will fight to protect each other. Of course, neither of us will be expected to sacrifice his own welfare to save the other but all I ask you to promise, and all I promise in return, is that we will do our absoulute best to protect each other."

I agree, but I see no reason why we would like an anti-RB alliance, and even less why we would like to lead it? :confused: The only reason why we desperately need allies against RB is that we refuse to make NAP with them. And Bistrita, whose judgement proved to be excellent so far :goodjob:, says that he would rather be left at the end the competing against RB, than CivFr. At the same time, all our diplomatic efforts are geared towards peace with CivFr and war with RB - that is towards endgame with a civ we are not confident we can outtech and actually consider a more dangerous opponent :( Still seems rather mysterious to me :confused:
 
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