And I've seen the diplo screen hit from coup d'tat; but every time it's been more of a finger wag from the offended party, even if they have the units around the city to declare war and take it back.
All in all, the AI seems extremely forgiving on all of their diplo, especially covert ops. I'd like to see the numbers on it, I'll take a look at the xml and see if I can find the diplo setup, and if someone doesn't get to posting it before me, I'll try and get it up here.