^^^ If you're in a game for domination or conquest, who cares what your relations are. In fact, I say, the more powerful a friendly neighbor becomes, the more likely i'm gonna screw him(her) up and earlier. In my most recent game, Cyrus was my neighbor and we were extremely friendly up until 1300s. He was starting to gain on me in score, power, tech, and had vassalized someone. (In my last game, I had a big problem with Roosevelt being an ally and vassalizing 3 civs => he won by score!) Monty ended up declaring on Cyrus, and I saw a great opportunity to reduce him in size,score,tech, and power. I also stole his vassal from him ;-)