In my last game (playing as England yet again, large Islands map) my nearest neighbour was Monty. As soon as I realised I thought 'oh-oh' and tried to be friends. Well he stayed my (eventually only) friend all through my various wars, joining in when it suited him, making trades and signing RA's. Eventually the time came when I only needed his capital for a Dom victory so I DOW'd. Instead of the usual trite responses I'm used to the caption said something about me "...betraying a friend just for victory..." - Dammit, I actually felt really guilty! I don't recall ever seeing such a caption before.