aelf
Ashen One
What about mass movements? A man shouldn't put his family at risk just because of the potential for bigger movements. They happen, but it still doesn't give a man the right to put his family in danger.
You don't think mass movements can begin with the actions of individuals? I'm sure much of history disagrees with you there.
Putting people you love in danger is a problem, but then again that is a perennial reason that authorities give to discourage opposition, thereby justifying oppression. I don't think there is a hard-and-fast rule as to whether it's better to act one way or another. Very often you just won't know till after.