what does your position in terms of points have to do with you being attacked/what type of units you have?
Of course being 2nd in military strength and at odds with the top dog will still get you ridiculed by them for having such a weak army
I still don't think so. Say you are in 3rd place militarily. Take all your warriors and promote them until they are longswordsman. You will still be in 3rd place, I tried it.
I think it may make a difference, but I'm not sure if the relationship is linear. Is your power rating is proportional to the shield cost of all of your units? Or the power? Does it take promotions into account?