1) Androgyny was never mentioned by me? We here did you get this from?
2) I was posting from a perspective of identifying as Gender Female irregardless of what gender I was born with.
3) Why are games geared towards violence? Let us look to their gross market? My point was that Gender Identified Females want games too. Complex games which they may find enjoyable and not uncomfortable because of the level of warfare required. Perhaps I was presumptuous that women do not seek this kind of conflict. If the balance of GIFs disagree, so be it. I certainly have not undertaken an empirical study.
4) I am uncomfortable with high-production value games geared towards violence, again, irregardless of what gender I was born with. Because I identify as Gender Female I think this is disappointing. I believe Gender Female identifiers tend to be less inclined to war (however, I acknowledge war-maidens have existed in history, ie, Boudica)
5) From an evolutionary point of view (perhaps nay-sayed by religious view - and more power to you if you believe this is the case) females tend to be more peaceful in conflict resolution (for a fun read on this perspective Frank Herbert's sequels to Dune).
6) This is they way I speak. If it is beyond your level, I apologise. I did not mean to sound pompous ... this is my only post to a sci-fi-esque website. I'm regretting it already.
1) I was being an idiot : P I'm so sorry : D
2) Moot point since I was being an idiot. Again, sorry : P
3) I don't think games are geared towards violence, but towards competition and sport. True, often this happens in the form of violence and warfare since that is something we, humans, identify with quite strongly. Regardless, I don't think it's a matter of being a male or female. Personally, I enjoy non-violent games much more than violent games, almost always opt for diplomacy, culture, or any use of words over use of steel.
4) I honestly think you are using war / combat / etc. too fluently in combination with violence. Non-physical violence can be quite brutal too, and I still don't think males or females have more of a tendency to want war more than the other. So, yeah, maybe males tend to have higher levels of certain hormones, gearing them up for physical confrontation quicker, but that is something entirely different from desiring warfare, and also something different from wanting violence in general. Getting a biological influx making you ready for something, is entirely different from wanting said thing.
5) A science fiction writer, no matter how good his ideas, is not a source for 'females tending to be more peaceful in conflict resolution'. I have not read up on it the subject matter to claim I'm well versed in it, but in my experience conflict resolution does not work more peacefully from the side of females than from the side of males. Yes, different in certain aspects, but more peaceful? No. I know of as many women that go berserk in conflict as men, and I know as many men that are extremely peaceful in conflict, as I know of women. That, however, might be my personal experience, but without good sources I would be hesitant to proclaim such things if I were you.
6) I meant no disrespect, and I fear my sentence made me come off harsher than I intended. I apologise for that, and wish in no way to change the way you speak or write.
7) Have you ever thought about cultural influences on hormones? It might be a biological thing that males are more androgenic, but it's also a cultural stigma that perpetuates it. For example, crying is often seen as a sign of weakness, not only for men amongst each other, but also from women to men (as in: men crying, women going: men don't cry!). How often I've heard women use the sentence "Real men [fill in horrible stereo type]"... it's a sad state of affairs.
8) Have you tried the sandbox mod? It's not perfect, and I wish Civ had an 'Always peace' option, but it's rather peaceful still, although a bit empty : /
Again, I'm sorry if I came off to harshly, and hope you will find your time on this forum civilised and Vulcan : P