Sure, I take it personal. I also feel betrayed when I'm trying to pump out horsemen to protect my people during a war, and a few cities fall into disorder. It's like: "I'm just trying to knock back the Germans for the safety of our country. I'm putting all this effort into it to make sure they are forced to fight a defensive war and this is the love and support you show me. "
Yeah, I'm referring to my latest game. The Germans made an outrageous demand. I didn't want to appease them (because my people have their pride, I mean I was totally willing). I couldn't get another Civ to join me, but the Germans got the small Japanese civ to declare war on me. (I was American). I was able to get the English to declare on the Japanese later.
I captured 2 German cities and destroyed 1, and then got them to declare peace for another city. They are still fairly strong, but more confined to tundra. The war was dragging on and NY and Philly fell into disorder twice. I think I still hold a grudge against those liberal give-peace-a-chancers.
I did the same with the Japanese, but I let them have peace before I cancelled the alliance with the English (it was on the last turn so I thought I was safe). Now everyone on the continent is annoyed with me. The Greeks are there also. I'm starting to feel awfully lonely, and can't let my military numbers slip at all. I need to discover another continent (and more civs) fast.