Narz
keeping it real
In the eyes of the law/society IMO if you really want to change your gender you should be allowed to do so. Some people really identify with the opposite gender of their birth & there could be some legitimate neurological reasons why they feel that way. Either way, who am I to judge.
My question is not about whether transgendered people should be allowed to feel accepted for who they feel they are/have equal rights/etc. Any decent person should agree that people should not be treated differently & shown basic human respect same as anyone else as long as their lifestyle choices don't hurt anyone else. This thread is not about that, its about whether you as an individual see a transgendered person (lets just say M to F since its much more common) as female? Personally I do not though I'm happy to refer to them in the third person as her/she if they prefer that but I don't actually see them that way myself.
I don't feel this is wrong (how can the categories in my head be wrong if it doesn't affect how I treat someone?), especially since I don't particularly care what gender anyone is unless I'm going to have sexual relations with them. I'm just wondering if other people see things the same or differently.
My question is not about whether transgendered people should be allowed to feel accepted for who they feel they are/have equal rights/etc. Any decent person should agree that people should not be treated differently & shown basic human respect same as anyone else as long as their lifestyle choices don't hurt anyone else. This thread is not about that, its about whether you as an individual see a transgendered person (lets just say M to F since its much more common) as female? Personally I do not though I'm happy to refer to them in the third person as her/she if they prefer that but I don't actually see them that way myself.
I don't feel this is wrong (how can the categories in my head be wrong if it doesn't affect how I treat someone?), especially since I don't particularly care what gender anyone is unless I'm going to have sexual relations with them. I'm just wondering if other people see things the same or differently.