Going to have to agree with Vincour. Let's replace a mental illness with a physical disability here. Civver's logic would imply that Stephen Hawking shouldn't be in a relationship once he got ALS because he needs a lot of support. Why doesn't one break off a relationship when your wife gets cancer, for that matter? The discrimination we have towards people with mental illnesses because of the false distinction that it's "all in your head" is utterly astounding. Considering how much we are seeing that this distinction is less than we previously thought - I heard that there might be a link between inflammation and depression, for example - I just don't see how we can shove that serious amount of blame.