I fell dumb.....
But still..... getting mutible pacifist monks to lvl 12....
I wouldn't convert my mana to the spirit version if i just had 1-2-3 monks with sufficient xp to get the +2 affinity.
On the other side it seems dangerous/expensive to try and nurse 3/5 units alongside a standard army.
So...any chance we can convince you to go ahead and look into allowing (truncated) fractional affinity, seperate attack and defense affinity, seperate attack and defense typed damage, affinity damage types defined where affinity is given instead of always the same for each resource, and typed range strength anytime soon?
Fractional Affinity - can definitely see uses. Allows for low level elemental summons to have affinity.
Differing damage types for affinities - again, nothing springs to mind
unless a pressing need for their functionality is found.
3 off. strength xp chasers are a good definition of kamikaze attitude (gameplaywise at least( I understand how the Elo would want their spiritual increase to come from passive/defensive roles..... but still!?!).
This is where the logic falls down. You should very rarely be using the offensive strength. One of Sun Tzu's principles of war was that you should consolidate upon your strengths and minimize your weaknesses. Being a pacifist makes offensive action a weakness for the Elohim - but it is not difficult to force/persuade the AI to attack your units. It's a different style of play, but it is still effective.
The main times you'd need to attack is to capture enemy cities - but that's arguably not what the Elohim are about anyway. It seems fitting that they're less able to do so in the early game, not resorting to aggressive action until other options have been exhausted (and until the barbs have leveled up your defensive monks to a decent standard).
If it's kamikaze - don't do it. Wait until you can tilt the scales in your favour. They're not a conquer-all civ in this incarnation (as is fitting to the lore - conversely the Doviello don't suit a builder strategy, but that is readily accepted).