Sometime answers to dilemmas are ridiculously simple it will elude you until now. Because I was like, man, screw the bullies that work in firaxis who hates people that likes to play on huge maps. IMMA MAKE THE RULES! I ran into the dlc folder for the global defines and set population unhappines from 1 to 0. Boom, all of suddenly I can now expand like the AI now. Now I just need to switch their current chieftain happiness to whatever level i'm playing on preferably king because i'm moving up to king. I'm thinking on things like now. Proof. I went from 51 happiness to 222. AT LONG LAST MANY CITY SITES I'VE BEEN EYEING BUT NEVER SETTLED BECAUSE OF HAPPINESS WILL BE SETTLED! I don't know about you guys but, gods n kings just got alot more fun for me. The AIs can take their infinite happiness and shove it into some basement or something. Playing field is level again. Firaxis will just have to learn to deal with the fact that I'm the one making the rules now, not them! Now, excuse me, I've got a new game to start up on gods n kings!