Okay, here's my dilemma. I'm Rome, and a sated power right now. I've conquered Spain, France, England, Greece, Byzantium, Carthage, Egypt, and Babylon, and I've built cities in Palestine, Anatolia, and what I'm guessing is Slovenia. Because I'm the big dog, EVERYONE else who's still alive keeps asking me to join whatever war they just started. But I'm too busy building improvements and Wonders to expend any resources on more wars, so I decline. Always. I'm playing nice and not hurting anybody anymore. I'm even giving away technologies when asked nicely. Now everybody hates me because I won't kill them. Seriously. You see, when you decline to join someone else's war, that player gets a bit angry at you, but you don't score any points with the player that you declined to attack! Isn't this a bit... um... unfair and ********? I propose that we petition Firaxis to fix this in the next patch.