On that note, I strongly doubt they will agree to a deal for nothing. And I strongly doubt they feel any remorse or guilt about their city. On the contrary I am pretty certain they feel they have outplayed us and are now gloating a bit on how good players they are compared to us. Asking them for resources for free will most likely make them ridicule us in their forums, but it does lend a certain credibility to us behaving irrationally and unexpected though, as I am certain they don't expect us to look like we are begging at their door...
We cant do much to change their opinion if it is already bad opinion about us, than to act and behave in our best interest. Self-respect and self-confidence are contagious. When someone see we respect our own interests and we are not afraid to show this, they will consider respecting our interest too. Sam e with confidence. If we look confident, others will think we have reason for being so. Either way we will tell what we want and we will know what they think about us. So we can plan according to this. But I can bet 5 beers they will accept some form of reparation (being it Stone + Spices to us, or Stone + Spices + third happy for us giving them Wines, etc), only to have their NAP longer. They have plans, they dont want to compromise those with risking insecure border with us or outright hostile equally advanced (thus dangerous) neighbor to tie their hands and ruin their carefully crafted plans.
sounds like they have a spy in our forum... Or maybe they are just as smart (or smarter) as we and they read it exactly as as we do... who would have thought?
Absolutely it comes from thinking alike. It is just common game logic. See the date for their proposed NAP extension? Turn 175. Just how close it is to the turn 170 I plan/prognosis we will finish our second neighbor conquest? They have the same in their minds. Which gives us some advantage in them telling us their plans without us telling them ours and gives us levers to forewarn their victims. Also to leave them with the impression they are leading the game. They will say: "see - those guys dont even know why we propose t175, but they will agree in exchange for mere couple of resources as gifts.. Hope those gifts keep CFC warm when we have tripped our territory and be ready to come after them" Good thing is we want/know we will be in no worse position than them then
What they are thinking now is "Hmmm we screwed them... Why dont they say anything? Must be because they really like us and really want to be friends or they are furious and plotting against us quietly... Lets offer a closer friendship to find out where they stand."
Might be both ways. To me the fact they come to us tells us they do desire and they are ready for the deal. And when you are ready for something, you already have it done in your mind and you expect it to happen, you wont get turned down by some minor added costs as 2 resources.
Also, again they will underestimate us for believing they see our real feelings/capacity on this - we feel hurt and we ask for cheap present to get us back on the good side with them. Like treating a girl like whоre and then buy her flowers and everything is OK. You think "What a cheap girl. Good only for one thing and I will use her however I see fit." and in your mind she is cheap and not worth much and you continue to use her and generally underestimate her. Some time later, when you wake up in one beautiful sunny morning and all your bank accounts, expensive cars and all other stuff are gone for good with the supposedly dumb, cheap and submissive whоre which pride you though you can buy with cheap bouquet, then you know who is the fuсked up one for real.
or at least demand free resources as a "token of friendship".
"Token of friendship" or "compensation for your sin with A1" are just slight deviations on one and the same thing. "We want you to show us some respect and compensate us for your trespassing and restore our belief in your good will toward us"
But if we're leaning to no renewals, then saying nothing stikes me as the correct course.
Why would we want no renewal of NAP? Maybe to keep RB from conquering Germans and WPC? But then maybe while we build up pointless against each-other in a cold war situation with RB, Apolyton, CP and CivFR conquer Germans, WPC and SpAp and what we get? CFC and RB at size 1, while all the other serious competitors double than us size? I think this was subject to different (and maybe very long) discussion.