Narz
keeping it real
What new (or old) things are you doing to try to stay healthy these days?
Could be physical/emotional/social/intellectual/'spiritual', whatever.
So anyway, run w the thread however you see fit. I'm always trying on new habits/ways of being from other intelligent people.
Could be physical/emotional/social/intellectual/'spiritual', whatever.
- Was on a super solid meditation kick for about two months from Jan 9th but fell off pretty hard, trying to get back on by doing it 1st thing in the morning (after bathroom, getting clothes/items ready for the day), lost a lot of momentum but we'll see how this 1st thing in the morning thing goes (right now I'm back in US for a month so don't have to worry about kids waking up before me)
- Gym every morning after that, keep it to 45min-60min, alternating between 200mg caffeine pill (aprox 3¢ per does) & some kind of pre-workout (closer to 50-75¢ but it's more fun to drink something), sometimes go twice a day. This is the positive habit I'm the most consistent with because I find it super rewarding in the moment, it's usually the highlight of my day, only time I miss a day is if I'm sick, my partner or kids are sick or I got less than 5 hours sleep
- Aiming to do some sort of stretching/yoga everyday but I'm much less consistent w it. Mady Morrison is a good youtuber w some routines (w no talking!), will put link below
- I'm more aware of my anxiety & my fluctuating moods & I'm better @ staying more present & curious w them & catastrophizing less ("here we go again", "I'll always be like this", etc.) than I was even a few years ago. Awareness doesn't necessarily give you solutions but it helps to avoid emotions spiraling out of control (leading to actions also spiraling out control)
- Food/digestion remains my biggest issue as it has for over 20 years, but obviously I can never give up trying to improve it (accept current situation but never surrender the will to improve), aiming to eat greens & low-sugar probiotic food of some kind everyday (usually kraut). Trying to gain weight without having a stomach ache all day is quite the challenge for me. Slow & steady slight calorie surplus and I'm thinking every two months I'll do a 60 hour fast to give my system a rest, promote autophagy. So realistically I can probably gain 5lb in two months, when I fast I'll probably lose 3-4lb and I'll repeat until I get to my goal weight (I'm not sure what that is as I don't know how I'll feel @ 190 or 200, I'm thinking around 205lb (93kg) would be the best aesthetically for me but how I feel is more important.
- Social isolation may be tied w food as biggest source of anxiety (w career/$ worries close behind), but I've gotten better @ accepting it & appreciating that it's better to have fewer ties than toxic ties & enjoying my own company (if you hate to be alone, have kids, then you'll savor your time alone). I feel like social isolation can be a bad feedback loop, the more alone you are the more you get used it & meeting people feels awkward. The easy fix is to try to connect w other isolated people but you'll find very often that there's a reason those people are isolated (they're annoying, boring, flaky, negative, underhanded, etc). I've tried to appreciate the small connections I have w people, however limited, like the front desk girl @ the gym, ubereats customers taking the food from me for 3 seconds, etc. Research seems to suggest these micro-interactions can actually make a big difference. Beyond that I just plan to put myself in the position to make social connections, be genuine w people & curious about them & hopefully in 2-3 years my social life will look much different.
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So anyway, run w the thread however you see fit. I'm always trying on new habits/ways of being from other intelligent people.