3.03 was an embarassing mistake (and I'm sure no one's more sorry about that then the Firaxians themselves).
3.13 sounds like a good patch, it seems to fix many issues, among those some showstoppers like the "infinite loop" bugs. If 3.13 works well, then (at least from my perspective) they managed to wipe out the mistake they made with 3.03. That 3.13 has been announced several times now, but still hasn't arrived, is certainly unfortunate, but understandable if you know how the patching and QA process works. The wait doesn't bother me much, since I find BtS very enjoyable as it is, and I'll play Civ4 for years anyway. Hence, the quality of the patch is much, much more important for me than when exactly it arrives. I also never stopped playing in anticipation of a patch. So from my perspective, I wouldn't care if the process takes another month, provided that the end result is a good patch.
I do however think that issuing beta patches might have been a good solution for the people who had their games grind to a halt. Some zip download without an exe installer, with a disclaimer "use at own risk" attached, might have done the job. I'm not sure whether that's possible though, copy protection and the fact that Take2 would have to authorize such a distribution might be an issue here.
Nevertheless, while it's *very* important for me that *final* patch for BtS is a good one, I don't care much when it arrives or when the intermediate steps come. Because of this, I find it hard to vote in this poll - I can't even judge Firaxis' effort in the past weeks because I haven't seen the result yet. In any case, I still think (like I voted in the very first poll) that the patch is worth the wait of it does what is claims.