So I clearly need to get out and do more things because I have been noticing, when I hang out with one of my good friends the invariable question comes up, "so what have you been up to?" and if it's not related to work, which isn't the most exciting of things, I am finding that I really have nothing to say. Doesn't help that I am perpetually single and rarely seeing anyone so the conversation naturally swinging to that direction is a dead end as well. So I am wondering, just what does everyone get up to in your own spare time? What would your usual answers be when you get together with friends or family that is not part of the regular things you usually get up to? I realize that I do not actually do much and need to change that - playing computer or video games, starting to read more and 'thinking' about writing are not much to converse about.