Ryika
Lazy Wannabe Artista
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So, for more than a decade my mom had annoyed me with semi-constant comments ala:
"Ryika (obviously that's not my real name), it's time you stop with the drawing and video game nonsense and look for a boyfriend. You want to have children, don't you? You'll really hate yourself if you're 30 and still single, and that whole attitude about not wanting a family, that's all just a temporary thing that you should get over, or you'll hate yourself for ignoring your natural urges."
Given that her own marriage didn't work out so well, she didn't really have much of a chance in a direct argument, but that didn't keep her from still bringing it up every now and then.
Until earlier this year, it suddenly stopped.
I noticed that, but didn't really understand why. Until yesterday, when I visited her at home for a few hours and learned that above her, there lives a family with 3 kids, all young boys, all as active as you'd imagine.
So my theory is that that made her remember how terribly annoying kids are when they're around you for more than an hour. Haven't asked her directly, but I'm pretty certain that's the reason.
It's funny how our brains almost automatically filter the past to make it look better than it actually was... until reality catches up with us in one way or the other.
Anyway. Moral of the story: Don't have kids, okay? They're terrible, annoying, and just take away time that you could use for other things, such as posting in an internet forum, while watching anime, preferably of the adult nature, on your second monitor.
Also, if you happen to be pregnant now, it would probably be a good idea to have an abortion.
"Ryika (obviously that's not my real name), it's time you stop with the drawing and video game nonsense and look for a boyfriend. You want to have children, don't you? You'll really hate yourself if you're 30 and still single, and that whole attitude about not wanting a family, that's all just a temporary thing that you should get over, or you'll hate yourself for ignoring your natural urges."
Given that her own marriage didn't work out so well, she didn't really have much of a chance in a direct argument, but that didn't keep her from still bringing it up every now and then.
Until earlier this year, it suddenly stopped.
I noticed that, but didn't really understand why. Until yesterday, when I visited her at home for a few hours and learned that above her, there lives a family with 3 kids, all young boys, all as active as you'd imagine.
So my theory is that that made her remember how terribly annoying kids are when they're around you for more than an hour. Haven't asked her directly, but I'm pretty certain that's the reason.
It's funny how our brains almost automatically filter the past to make it look better than it actually was... until reality catches up with us in one way or the other.
Anyway. Moral of the story: Don't have kids, okay? They're terrible, annoying, and just take away time that you could use for other things, such as posting in an internet forum, while watching anime, preferably of the adult nature, on your second monitor.
Also, if you happen to be pregnant now, it would probably be a good idea to have an abortion.
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