Hmmmn, that's because they're taking advantage of freedom of religion. It's private people, in a free country, doing bad things. Getting a tax-deduction, sure, but it's still going to be worse in a theocracy that is dedicated to violence against queer people. The exports from nearly any religious institution is going to be a mixed bag, depending on how the faith meets their partisan bias. We have seen enough faiths successfully update their beliefs on LGBTQ issues that we know that it's something deeper that people aren't capable of 'updating'.