Tani Coyote
Son of Huehuecoyotl
- Joined
- May 28, 2007
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I would like marriage to be permanent, for people to forever be in wedded bliss.
But true love is the majority of the time copyrighted by fairy tales. That's why we look up to such fables - they give us the setting we don't have.
As such, make it easier to divorce to reflect the reality.
For those who don't like the measure, it's easy - just specify your marriage is to last the duration of your lifetime. No need to force lifetime marriages on the rest of us.
I think a lot of people will choose lifetime marriages anyway. When we get married, we buy into the true love myth - we believe we'll be together forever. We sign papers that split everything equally because we're convinced it'll never go wrong.
But true love is the majority of the time copyrighted by fairy tales. That's why we look up to such fables - they give us the setting we don't have.
As such, make it easier to divorce to reflect the reality.
For those who don't like the measure, it's easy - just specify your marriage is to last the duration of your lifetime. No need to force lifetime marriages on the rest of us.
I think a lot of people will choose lifetime marriages anyway. When we get married, we buy into the true love myth - we believe we'll be together forever. We sign papers that split everything equally because we're convinced it'll never go wrong.