Momma Grizzlies Know How To Protect Their Cubs - The New Feminists?

Yeah I know that, and I'm all for females getting educated, voting, being treated intellectually equal to men, etc. It's just that I don't want the standard to be set that women should no longer care about being pretty. They can do what they want without threat of force, of course, but they shouldn't be respected as awesome rebels or anything.

I don't really think a society recognizing that the two sexes should have certain differences, despite no logical basis for them, is oppressive to women. It makes society more interesting. Like you said, that may or may not be sexist, but if it is I think it is desirable. "Seperate but equal" kind of thing.
 
And what you're forgetting is that ~98% of people are happy with their sexuality and gender, and never had to be coerced into accepting those genders/roles.
True, and I have no problem with that (although it's worth noting that only the success of the gay rights movement that you're able to set that statistic (wherever where you got it from...) anywhere near so high). Why would I? I am among them. All I suggest is that traditional gender identities are artificial and should be recognised as such. I also think that the English language is artificial, but I'm still quite happy to use it when it suits me.

We cannot undermine and destroy society...
Wait, what? When did I say that I proposed to "undermine and destroy society"? How do you infer that?

...because 2% of people had problems with their sexuality/gender. You are forgetting the most important element of sexual freedom - the freedom to be left alone to carry on doing what is right for you. ~98% of people are free with their gender and sexuality - it is feminists who are trying to take away their autonomy in order to impose unwanted concepts on people who don't need them.
How so? I don't think anyone is trying to force other people to be gay or transgendered or androgynous. All that is being asked is that people accept those that are.

This whole project is superfluous. Just accept the fact that most people are perfectly happy with the roles they grow up in and that trying to undermine those roles is like trying to tell a homosexual person that they have no right to be homosexual. Then perhaps you will make some understanding about sexual freedom and autonomy that might be helpful to you.
I never suggested that people should be forced to be anything. Didn't you read that thing I said about "sexual anarchism"?

I note that you've rather abandoned the rest of the discussion in favour of this one particular. One would think that we've abandoned feminism altogether in favour of a discussion on LGBT rights.

Yeah I know that, and I'm all for females getting educated, voting, being treated intellectually equal to men, etc. It's just that I don't want the standard to be set that women should no longer care about being pretty. They can do what they want without threat of force, of course, but they shouldn't be respected as awesome rebels or anything.
I never suggested as much, merely that a truly free society expects no particular patterns of behaviour of anyone beyond mutual respect for mutual freedoms. Impositions of gender, as represents by patriarchal society (and a hypothetical matriarchal society) and the traditional binary presentation of sex, gender and sexuality, reflect an intrusion on to individual autonomy, whether directly or indirectly imposed, and so must be considered abhorrent by all intellectually honest libertarians, right-wing or left.

I don't really think a society recognizing that the two sexes should have certain differences, despite no logical basis for them, is oppressive to women. It makes society more interesting. Like you said, that may or may not be sexist, but if it is I think it is desirable.
You treat "sex" and "gender" as interchangeable, which, as I have said, they are not. Sex is a biological affair, while gender is a social one. While sex heavily informs both gender and sexuality for many people, is not absolutely prescriptive of either, nor should it. I'm sure that you're read to accept the validity of homosexual, bisexual and transgendered individuals, so why cut to the heart of the thing and recognise that gender is a construct derived from sex, and, while arguably a natural social reflection of biological sex, not a necessary extension of it?

"Seperate but equal" kind of thing.
You'd think the ready applicability of that particular phrase would kind of give the iffiness of the binary gender system away... :undecide:
 
I believe what Ayn Rand is saying is that by throwing around oppression and attempting to create new gender modes, the non-binary gender movement is attempting to impose an entirely new conception of human society on an unwilling populace that is on a majority level really not all that bothered. I would argue similarly, and that the only "issue", really present is bigotry towards individuals that do not accept the modes that have been laid out for them. That doesn't mean those modes are invalid, it simply means that they do not accept or act on them. And while creating a new mode for those groups may seem logical from a purely analytical standpoint, it is essentially asking human thought to conform to an entirely new and essentially artificial viewpoint abstracted from an ultimately small percentage of the population.

End of statement, it's really just better for the whole to let the individuals concerned to be without bringing in the non-concerned individuals as the, "evil faceless oppressors".
 
I would think that being a conservative(one who prefers the old ways) by definition prevents you from being a feminist.

broads can be as feministic as they want while barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen
 
I believe what Ayn Rand is saying is that by throwing around oppression and attempting to create new gender modes, the non-binary gender movement is attempting to impose an entirely new conception of human society on an unwilling populace that is on a majority level really not all that bothered. I would argue similarly, and that the only "issue", really present is bigotry towards individuals that do not accept the modes that have been laid out for them. That doesn't mean those modes are invalid, it simply means that they do not accept or act on them. And while creating a new mode for those groups may seem logical from a purely analytical standpoint, it is essentially asking human thought to conform to an entirely new and essentially artificial viewpoint abstracted from an ultimately small percentage of the population.

End of statement, it's really just better for the whole to let the individuals concerned to be without bringing in the non-concerned individuals as the, "evil faceless oppressors".
Who is doing this? No-one is doing this. You assume interpersonal conflict where none is asserted, or, at least, where it is not deemed in any way essential to the issue. The conflict is with a restrictive binary gender system, which, it is argued, represses all individuals, to varying extents, and not merely those it deems "atypical". Even those who fully and sincerely identify as cisgendered heterosexuals- my own good self, for example- are affected by the system, because it imposes certain patterns of behaviour upon them, patterns which they are granted a limited capacity to deviate from, and which they have a limited role in influencing. As in all things, freedom demands autonomy, and one cannot be autonomous when systems of behaviour which are not your own are imposed upon you. Like systems of race or nationality, it makes demands of people which they do not volunteer for, inflicts upon the, standards and patterns of behaviour which they have not opted to subscribe to, and so is the innate and irrevocable enemy of true autonomy. One cannot simply suggest that those of a "non-standard" identity ignore a system which is opposed upon the rest of society. Not only is it absurd to assume it is such an easy task, and that the very existence of standards does not generate antipathy towards "non-standard" individuals, but it neglects the fact that all are repressed by the very notion of standards, whether or not they choose to adhere to them. It is like suggesting, in place of abolition, that those slaves who are free-minded simply stroll away, while those who wish to take no such risk should be happy in their chains.
Neither third-wave feminism, masculism nor the LGBT rights movement seek to inflict anything upon anyone, merely to enlighten them as to the repressive and constraining nature of the binary gender system, and the manner in which it affects them, personally, regardless of who they are or what identities they assume. It is not a conflict of gender, or of individuals, but against a system which imposes itself upon us all, and, like Hardie's socialism, "offers a platform broad enough for all to stand upon".
 
An overgrown knitting circle does not a feminist organization make. Meet me outside.
Um, it is a well known fact that you play with swords. As I value my life, I must respectfully decline your invitation.
 
I'm not aware of any societies that have deliberately and systematically made it their business to oppress women, and to oppress only women, qua women - without also oppressing men at the same time - simply because they were women. Such a society could not have survived.

I don't know -- what about fundamentalist Islamic regimes, like Iran or Saudi Arabia?
 
True, and I have no problem with that (although it's worth noting that only the success of the gay rights movement that you're able to set that statistic (wherever where you got it from...) anywhere near so high). Why would I? I am among them. All I suggest is that traditional gender identities are artificial and should be recognised as such. I also think that the English language is artificial, but I'm still quite happy to use it when it suits me.

But how is a traditional gender identity any more/less artificial than a fluid gender identity - or concepts such as sexual autonomy or sexual anarchism? Simply saying that something is artificial is a near-empty critique. If artificial gender roles fulfill their function and people like them, then why challenge them with other artificial gender roles that may not fulfill the function as well, and that people have already rejected? Simply because you deem "fluidity" and "autonomy" to be higher values is not sufficient reason. Happiness is the highest value.

Wait, what? When did I say that I proposed to "undermine and destroy society"? How do you infer that?

You stated quite specifically that you consider our society to be an oppressive construct of the patriarchy and that it needs to be dismantled conceptually and rebuilt. It's such a tiresome game to engage in, especially when there is no need for it.

How so? I don't think anyone is trying to force other people to be gay or transgendered or androgynous. All that is being asked is that people accept those that are.

Again this is not a true representation - legislation and the education/social environment are often manipulated by these kinds of ideologies to oppress the natural acquisition of gender roles by, for example, straight young males. Males need to distance themselves form girls at an early age and do so naturally by engaging in rougher behaviour, looking up to stronger male role-models and playing with different toys. Males also learn in different ways and require different forms of discipline, communication and leadership.

Some elements of feminism have - quite succesfully - targeted these weak points in male psychological and social development. This is what I mean by using force to deprive people of their natural development and gender roles.

I never suggested that people should be forced to be anything. Didn't you read that thing I said about "sexual anarchism"?

In my experience, feminists don't hesitate to pass laws that enforce their social policy vision.

I note that you've rather abandoned the rest of the discussion in favour of this one particular. One would think that we've abandoned feminism altogether in favour of a discussion on LGBT rights.

I'm not talking about LGBT rights, which I don't have a problem with. I'm talking about your concept of breaking down what you see as artificial gender roles, so you can replace them with other artificial gender roles of your own, that simply happen to conform to your own set of arbitrarily chosen value-priorities.

People don't need this, they really don't. The few who do can carry it out amongst themselves.

Also, your concept of complete gender and sexual freedom is an illusion. There is never complete freedom in anything, and that includes sexuality.
 
Most of the post made some sense, except for the part about feminists targeting males in key areas of development... What?
 
But how is a traditional gender identity any more/less artificial than a fluid gender identity - or concepts such as sexual autonomy or sexual anarchism? Simply saying that something is artificial is a near-empty critique. If artificial gender roles fulfill their function and people like them, then why challenge them with other artificial gender roles that may not fulfill the function as well, and that people have already rejected? Simply because you deem "fluidity" and "autonomy" to be higher values is not sufficient reason. Happiness is the highest value.
You are so close to grasping my point, but you turn away at the last minute. I am not arguing that the traditional genders expressed by the binary gender system are invalid, because they are not- plenty of people adhere to them, and are quite comfortable doing so. I am among them. The recognition that they are artificial is important because it removes the obligations to act in accordance with them, rendering them, in effect, subscriptive, thereby freeing individuals from the restrictive behaviour patterns which they enforce.
The point is that dissolving the binary frees people from imposed patterns of behaviour, thus allowing them to seek self-fulfilment more efficiently, and on their own terms. As a supposed Objectivist, you should understand that.

You stated quite specifically that you consider our society to be an oppressive construct of the patriarchy and that it needs to be dismantled conceptually and rebuilt. It's such a tiresome game to engage in, especially when there is no need for it.
Overturning patriachal society isn't the same thing as "destroying society". You paint me as some bomb-throwing anarchist stereotype for your own ends.

Again this is not a true representation - legislation and the education/social environment are often manipulated by these kinds of ideologies to oppress the natural acquisition of gender roles by, for example, straight young males. Males need to distance themselves form girls at an early age and do so naturally by engaging in rougher behaviour, looking up to stronger male role-models and playing with different toys. Males also learn in different ways and require different forms of discipline, communication and leadership.
What you're doing here is describing the traditional binary model, and asserting an absolute relevance which you have not substantiated. Yes, different individuals function differently, and these differences will, to some extent, be informed by sex. That's quite natural, no-one contests that. What we contest is the assumption that society must take these sexes and use them as the basis for a rigid system of gender, imposing identities and patterns of behaviour upon individuals that they did not choose to subscribe to.
Individuals are different, that's true. But at what point does this suggest that we must divide the entirety of the human race cleanly down the middle and dictate behaviour based upon this division? Why not leave the filed open, and let people make their own decisions about identity and behaviour?

Some elements of feminism have - quite succesfully - targeted these weak points in male psychological and social development. This is what I mean by using force to deprive people of their natural development and gender roles.
Perhaps you could elaborate? It's hard to present a counter-argument when your point is made in only the vaguest terms. How do I know that "some elements of feminism" have anything to do with my position? To what form of feminism do they subscribe? Are they second-wave or third-wave? Sex-positive or anti-pornography? Don't assume that feminism is monolithic, any more than any other broad movement, or, increasingly, range of associate movements. One may as well dismiss the Scottish National Party by observing that "some elements of nationalism have, quite successfully, gassed six million Jews". It is a disingenuous way to argue.

In my experience, feminists don't hesitate to pass laws that enforce their social policy vision.
Which feminists, what laws, and in what manner do they relate to my argument? Simply declaring "I met a Nazi once, so sod off" does not an effective argument make.

I'm not talking about LGBT rights, which I don't have a problem with. I'm talking about your concept of breaking down what you see as artificial gender roles, so you can replace them with other artificial gender roles of your own, that simply happen to conform to your own set of arbitrarily chosen value-priorities.
I'm not convinced that you understand me; I don not seek to destroy or replace the gender identities which comprise the binary gender model- they are, quite evidently, natural and comfortable for the majority of people- but to destroy the prescribed binary itself, establish gender itself as subscriptive.

And, while we're here, I'd like to observe that LGBT right is a form of this, as it represents the gradual dissolution of the traditional associations of sex, gender and sexuality. Homosexuals and bisexuals have established that the binary model of sexuality is false, while the transgendered are in the process of establishing that the traditional sex-gender model is also false. The next step is to simply acknowledge that gender is itself false, in the process liberating both those who do not subscribe to either traditional gender, and, in the process, those who do, by demonstrating that the gender binary is an artificial imposition, and therefore, like all such impositions, an artificial limit on human autonomy.

People don't need this, they really don't. The few who do can carry it out amongst themselves.
But if we maintain the binary gender system as a prescriptive social model, how can they do so? How can those which society has no place for

Also, your concept of complete gender and sexual freedom is an illusion. There is never complete freedom in anything, and that includes sexuality.
Of course not, that's why I repeatedly reference autonomy, a distinct concept, as the root of freedom. I do not regard freedom as a magical absolute, but as the state which results from the attainment of autonomy, of self-government within your circumstances.

Y'know, Karalysia was right, you are the world's worst Objectivist. You don't give a damn about individual freedom, and express viciously reactionary tendencies when presented with anything outside the norms of traditional Western culture. That's pretty lame.

Most of the post made some sense, except for the part about feminists targeting males in key areas of development... What?
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Most of the post made some sense, except for the part about feminists targeting males in key areas of development... What?

In Britain the educational environment has been changed to suit girls at the expense of boys. I should have stated specifically what I was alluding to.

In addition, there are feminist theorists who suggest that the best way to break down gender roles is to prevent boys growing up in environments where they will learn to be boys. It's therefore not a coincidence that an attack on males usually accompanies every attempt to achieve "equality for women".

A great example is denying men visitation or custody rights, while giving single mothers on benefits the lifestyle advantages of working middle-class couples. These things are fought out decades in advance by ideological pressure groups, who then dictate the legislation and academic discourse of the next generation.
 
In Britain the educational environment has been changed to suit girls at the expense of boys. I should have stated specifically what I was alluding to.

In addition, there are feminist theorists who suggest that the best way to break down gender roles is to prevent boys growing up in environments where they will learn to be boys. It's therefore not a coincidence that an attack on males usually accompanies every attempt to achieve "equality for women".

A great example is denying men visitation or custody rights, while giving single mothers on benefits the lifestyle advantages of working middle-class couples. These things are fought out decades in advance by ideological pressure groups, who then dictate the legislation and academic discourse of the next generation.

I've heard of the bolded portion, but I can't speak to its truth in any way. Where's the evidence for the first two, though?
 
It's also worth noting that the bolded portion is not some sort of grand feminist conspiracy, and is, in fact, questioned (to the extent occurs, which Ayn characteristically exaggerates) by many third-wave feminists and progressive masculists, the two being natural allies and greatly overlapping demographics. Feminism is not, despite the assertions of our angry young friend here, innately misandric, despite it's gynocentric tendencies (hence the necessity of a cooperative men's movement), and attempts to dissolve the traditional binary model of gender actively reject gender-based privilege in all it's forms.

I'll also acknowledge that the first portion is also a concern, but that it owes rather more to the greater number of females in the educational professions, an entirely different issue, than to any sort of conscious scheme of social castration. It's a practical concern, not part of some grand gender conflict, as Rand imagines. If nothing else, simply backtracking to a more phallocentric model of education would be no more effective, and that is the only solution which our angry white male has so far offered.
 
You are so close to grasping my point, but you turn away at the last minute. I am not arguing that the traditional genders expressed by the binary gender system are invalid, because they are not- plenty of people adhere to them, and are quite comfortable doing so. I am among them. The recognition that they are artificial is important because it removes the obligations to act in accordance with them, rendering them, in effect, subscriptive, thereby freeing individuals from the restrictive behaviour patterns which they enforce.
The point is that dissolving the binary frees people from imposed patterns of behaviour, thus allowing them to seek self-fulfilment more efficiently, and on their own terms. As a supposed Objectivist, you should understand that.

Firstly, they are not entirely artificial but possess a biological basis, so some of our gender roles are imposed on us by nature and reality. Thus gender roles are not entirely subscriptive or artificial, and it's difficult to know where nature ends and artificial begins.

Secondly, even if you could prove that they were entirely artificial, you have not demonstrated that you have any better alternatives, which is quite a serious requirement before you go breaking down things that already work and replacing them with experiments that might not work. ;)

As an Objectivist, I understand that the needs of a few individualists are rarely the same as those of the majority. You are talking about a small minority of people who possess the intelligence and self-awareness to engage in a self-creating project. Also, the minority of individuals who feel oppressed by their gender roles do tend to be more distressed than those who are secure in their role. So health/happiness and security of role seem to go together for the overwhelming majority of people.

Your train of logic that gender = artificial, artificial = subscriptive, subscriptive = harmful, has not been demonstrated as true. In the majority of cases, "subscriptive" gender roles are positive and helpful.

Overturning patriachal society isn't the same thing as "destroying society". You paint me as some bomb-throwing anarchist stereotype for your own ends.

Subversion is more complex than this. The subtle infiltration and subversion of the instruments of social ideology in the Marxist sense is what I had in mind.

What you're doing here is describing the traditional binary model, and asserting an absolute relevance which you have not substantiated. Yes, different individuals function differently, and these differences will, to some extent, be informed by sex. That's quite natural, no-one contests that. What we contest is the assumption that society must take these sexes and use them as the basis for a rigid system of gender, imposing identities and patterns of behaviour upon individuals that they did not choose to subscribe to.
Individuals are different, that's true. But at what point does this suggest that we must divide the entirety of the human race cleanly down the middle and dictate behaviour based upon this division? Why not leave the filed open, and let people make their own decisions about identity and behaviour?

I think I have substantiated it. ~98% of people are happy with their gender role - that is all the substantiation I need to be very, very wary of what I would call "totalitarianism along Jacobin lines" - the idea that a blueprint can be made for society, and then the existing society simply destroyed and rebuilt along the lines of the blueprint.

People don't get to choose their own gender behaviour. Men can't have babies. Women don't have the upper body strength of men. In the real World, these things do lead to specialisation of role. But evolution provides the emotional and biological accompaniments to such roles - meaning that people generally are happy to fulfill their biological destiny. There would be something sick with a species that, after a billion years of evolution, was fundamentally unhappy with fulfilling its biological roles.

There are a minority of exceptions, of course. Yet what is interesting is that you point to a few thousand transexuals as evidence that gender roles don't work, while ignoring the billions of other humans on the Planet who prove that gender roles do work.

Perhaps you could elaborate? It's hard to present a counter-argument when your point is made in only the vaguest terms. How do I know that "some elements of feminism" have anything to do with my position? To what form of feminism do they subscribe? Are they second-wave or third-wave? Sex-positive or anti-pornography? Don't assume that feminism is monolithic, any more than any other broad movement, or, increasingly, range of associate movements. One may as well dismiss the Scottish National Party by observing that "some elements of nationalism have, quite successfully, gassed six million Jews". It is a disingenuous way to argue.

You seem to know more about feminism than I do, so perhaps you can make it easier by simply distancing yourself very clearly from such ideas.

Which feminists, what laws, and in what manner do they relate to my argument? Simply declaring "I met a Nazi once, so sod off" does not an effective argument make.

We had feminist ministers in the labour government passing a host of legislation along these lines. I assumed you were British but if you have been abroad, just google Harriet Harman - even the left-leaning New Statesman thinks the Labour government was a little too feminist http://www.newstatesman.com/199908300006

I'm not convinced that you understand me; I don not seek to destroy or replace the gender identities which comprise the binary gender model- they are, quite evidently, natural and comfortable for the majority of people- but to destroy the prescribed binary itself, establish gender itself as subscriptive.

You simply won't be able to do it. Can I ask you why it means so much to you to do this? For a minority of people I can understand that they need this liberation. But the majority simply don't. They have never asked for it and vocalise against it.

And, while we're here, I'd like to observe that LGBT right is a form of this, as it represents the gradual dissolution of the traditional associations of sex, gender and sexuality. Homosexuals and bisexuals have established that the binary model of sexuality is false, while the transgendered are in the process of establishing that the traditional sex-gender model is also false. The next step is to simply acknowledge that gender is itself false, in the process liberating both those who do not subscribe to either traditional gender, and, in the process, those who do, by demonstrating that the gender binary is an artificial imposition, and therefore, like all such impositions, an artificial limit on human autonomy.

LGBT has not established that the traditional concept of gender/sexuality is false - they have only established that they are exceptions.

The model needs to be expanded, not destroyed. There is no logical reason to conclude that the next step is to acknowledge that sex-gender is false.

Why is it that 2% of people is sufficient to convince you it's false, but 98% doesn't convince you of anything?

The model works well, very well, and it just needs refining.

But if we maintain the binary gender system as a prescriptive social model, how can they do so? How can those which society has no place for
Of course not, that's why I repeatedly reference autonomy, a distinct concept, as the root of freedom. I do not regard freedom as a magical absolute, but as the state which results from the attainment of autonomy, of self-government within your circumstances.

Ok fair point.

Y'know, Karalysia was right, you are the world's worst Objectivist. You don't give a damn about individual freedom, and express viciously reactionary tendencies when presented with anything outside the norms of traditional Western culture. That's pretty lame.

The World's worst? No exaggeration there then ;)

I would like to conclude by saying that society does need to put down gender roles and even sexuality roles for people. In the vast majority of cases [as noted, around ~98% arguably] society gets it right.

Children, when growing up, don't need to experiment with their gender roles. They are incapable of making any decisions about these things on an intellectual level and simply need to be given encouragement and reinforcement through as simple a model as possible. The majority of adults don't need to experiment with it either. We are lucky enough that we have a society where almost everyone is happy and secure in their gender and sexuality. Shouldn't you be celebrating this fact?

The perfect World of gender roles and sexuality that you are aiming at.... almost alreadty exists. The majority of people are already there ;) This is probably because we have a long evolutionary history, both biologically and socially, and we have the benefits of that evolution in the gender roles we have today, which are the most efficient, rational and productive balance that can exist.

Maybe the fourth wave will consolidate and support this beneficial situation, to the gain of all :D
 
Firstly, they are not entirely artificial but possess a biological basis, so some of our gender roles are imposed on us by nature and reality. Thus gender roles are not entirely subscriptive or artificial, and it's difficult to know where nature ends and artificial begins.
I did not argue that gender did not stem from nature, but that nature is no basis on which to impose societal restraints. People should assume whichever roles and identities they find most fulfilling, and no have constructed roles and identities imposed upon them by society. Gender is, after all, a social concept, not a biological one.

Secondly, even if you could prove that they were entirely artificial, you have not demonstrated that you have any better alternatives, which is quite a serious requirement before you go breaking down things that already work and replacing them with experiments that might not work. ;)
You misunderstand; I do not offer alternatives, because I do not seek to impose gender. I present gender as subscriptive; in essence, I think people should do whatever the hell they like. You assume tyranny where I offer anarchy!

As an Objectivist, I understand that the needs of a few individualists are rarely the same as those of the majority. You are talking about a small minority of people who possess the intelligence and self-awareness to engage in a self-creating project. Also, the minority of individuals who feel oppressed by their gender roles do tend to be more distressed than those who are secure in their role. So health/happiness and security of role seem to go together for the overwhelming majority of people.
I don't understand; why does the dissolution of a limited binary suggest that

Your train of logic that gender = artificial, artificial = subscriptive, subscriptive = harmful, has not been demonstrated as true. In the majority of cases, "subscriptive" gender roles are positive and helpful.
What? No it doesn't. Subscriptive is good, prescriptive is bad. I argue that gender is artificial whether or not it is prescriptive or subscriptive, but that the recognition of artificiality demands the dissolution of a prescriptive model and the introduction of a subscriptive model of gender.

Subversion is more complex than this. The subtle infiltration and subversion of the instruments of social ideology in the Marxist sense is what I had in mind.
You're suggesting that third-wave feminism is a Marxist ideology? :huh: You may need to elaborate on this one.

I think I have substantiated it. ~98% of people are happy with their gender role - that is all the substantiation I need to be very, very wary of what I would call "totalitarianism along Jacobin lines" - the idea that a blueprint can be made for society, and then the existing society simply destroyed and rebuilt along the lines of the blueprint.

People don't get to choose their own gender behaviour. Men can't have babies. Women don't have the upper body strength of men. In the real World, these things do lead to specialisation of role. But evolution provides the emotional and biological accompaniments to such roles - meaning that people generally are happy to fulfill their biological destiny. There would be something sick with a species that, after a billion years of evolution, was fundamentally unhappy with fulfilling its biological roles.

There are a minority of exceptions, of course. Yet what is interesting is that you point to a few thousand transexuals as evidence that gender roles don't work, while ignoring the billions of other humans on the Planet who prove that gender roles do work.
Firstly, transexuals are not the issue. Transexuality does not conflict with the a binary model of sexual determinism, it merely adjusts the nature of determination. My reference was to transgendered individuals, who demonstrate that sex and gender are not necessarily related, and to agendered, intergendered and third gendered individuals, who demonstrate the fact that a species' possession of a binary sexual biology does not necessarily suggest a binary gender society.
Secondly, you are missing the point entirely. I am not suggesting that biology does not inform behaviour or identity, but that society has no place in asserting the manner in which people assume these roles and identities. Imposed constructs constrain people, removing their ability to function autonomously, while voluntary, fluid constructs- which I advocate- do not. You can be every bit the archetypal Victorian man's man if you want, all I argue is that neither society nor any other individual has the right to impose this or any other identity upon you.

You seem to know more about feminism than I do, so perhaps you can make it easier by simply distancing yourself very clearly from such ideas.
It would help if you were able to communicate which ideas you were talking about. Asserting a support for a post-structuralist model of gender, which is all I am doing, should not be taken as support, explicit or implicit, for misandry, not least because misandry is as incompatible with the model as misogyny.

We had feminist ministers in the labour government passing a host of legislation along these lines. I assumed you were British but if you have been abroad, just google Harriet Harman - even the left-leaning New Statesman thinks the Labour government was a little too feminist http://www.newstatesman.com/199908300006
I suspected this is the sort of think that you were getting at, but I still don't see why it is relevant to me. This is second-wave stuff, with very little relevance to the dissolution of the binary gender model (indeed, much of it seems quite heavily invested in that model).

You simply won't be able to do it. Can I ask you why it means so much to you to do this? For a minority of people I can understand that they need this liberation. But the majority simply don't. They have never asked for it and vocalise against it.
One could say much the same thing of serfdom in the eleventh century. The complacency of the past is no defence of the complacency of the present. Society has always evolved, and it must and will continue to evolve. The reactionary has always been on the wrong side of history, in this as in all things.

LGBT has not established that the traditional concept of gender/sexuality is false - they have only established that they are exceptions.

The model needs to be expanded, not destroyed. There is no logical reason to conclude that the next step is to acknowledge that sex-gender is false.

Why is it that 2% of people is sufficient to convince you it's false, but 98% doesn't convince you of anything?

The model works well, very well, and it just needs refining.
Because the model asserts 100% applicability, and so even 0.001% would render it invalid. If the traditional models of sex-gender-sexuality are not entirely correct, then they are not correct at all, any more than a car which works 98% of the time can be said to be a working car.
Furthermore, I would contest that the "comfortable 98%" is a nonsense; the vast majority lack sufficient conflict with their prescribed identity to pursue an alternative, but that does not mean that the identity is not imposed. Even if they would subscribe to exactly the same identity without imposition, that does not imply for a second that anyone or anything has the right to impose it upon. Freedom is not found in establishing a comfortable niche within a system of repression, but about casting repression aside in favour of individual autonomy in all things.
Homosexuals and bisexuals have demonstrated, inarguably so, that sex does not determine sexual orientation. Trangendereds are in the process of demonstrating that sex does not determine gender. When sex, gender and sexuality are all isolated on a social scale, as they will be, then why do we choose to perpetuate a model that asserts interconnectedness, and imposes identities to that effect?

I would like to conclude by saying that society does need to put down gender roles and even sexuality roles for people. In the vast majority of cases [as noted, around ~98% arguably] society gets it right.

Children, when growing up, don't need to experiment with their gender roles. They are incapable of making any decisions about these things on an intellectual level and simply need to be given encouragement and reinforcement through as simple a model as possible. The majority of adults don't need to experiment with it either. We are lucky enough that we have a society where almost everyone is happy and secure in their gender and sexuality. Shouldn't you be celebrating this fact?
That is the very state of affairs which I seek to bring about, and the freedom that we are not deprive of. Perhaps your view of the world is rose-tinted, but mine is not. How can one pursue autonomy when one is so willing to paint repression as freedom, simply because the form that the repression takes does not intrude upon you (or you do not consciously perceive to intrude upon you)?
How easy it is for the complacent cisgendered heterosexual male to look at the world and see no oppression, blind to a society which constrains his fellow men and women, and even, despite his ignorance, his own self.

The perfect World of gender roles and sexuality that you are aiming at.... almost alreadty exists. The majority of people are already there ;) This is probably because we have a long evolutionary history, both biologically and socially, and we have the benefits of that evolution in the gender roles we have today, which are the most efficient, rational and productive balance that can exist.

Maybe the fourth wave will consolidate and support this beneficial situation, to the gain of all :D
To do so would be to sacrifice every achievement that feminism, masculism and the LGBT right's movement have ever attained. Perhaps that is Palin and her Visigothic hordes wish to achieve, but is something that no reasonable person- let alone one who subscribes to a form of philosophical anarchy, as you purport to do- should ever accept.

I am a cisgendered, heterosexual male, and I am able to identify as a supporter of feminism and LGBT rights. I recognise these, in their healthy and properly developed forms, as movements which pursue autonomy, and reject repression, to over-turn the soft tyranny of imposed identities and roles. To reject the imposed collectives of the binary gender model, and to establish, in it's place, a free and fluid model of voluntary identity. Why is it so difficult for you, a self-declared lover of liberty (and a vehement anti-collectivist), to do the same?
 
To be honest, if some sort of wonderful miracle occurred that "freed us of binary gender roles", I don't think my life would change all that much, or anyone else I know. So how does it make any difference to anyone at all? How can you claim that "making", such a change would do much of anything?
 
I agree with people like GoodEnoughForMe. Palin has no relevancy to the huge amount of academia associated with feminism, nor does she embody any real part of the historic Feminist movement besides "empowering women" (while simultaneously endorsing feminine gender roles contrary to most parts of feminism).

Huh???

Feminism is simply about allowing women to have the same options as men. Being a mother isn't an anti-feminist, submissive gender role. It's a basic biological drive and is necessary to the development of the species.

The irony is the left thinks Palin should have to choose between a career and family, while a man is allowed to have both, yet Palin is the one who's backwards.

Palin played sports in high school, still runs long distance races, and hunts and fishes, none of which is girly-girl stuff. She is an avid supporter of Title IX, which allows women the same educational opportunities as men. You're essentially left with arguing that she's not a feminist because competed in a pageant 30 years ago.
 
To be honest, if some sort of wonderful miracle occurred that "freed us of binary gender roles", I don't think my life would change all that much, or anyone else I know. So how does it make any difference to anyone at all? How can you claim that "making", such a change would do much of anything?
Well, in part this is because you are a cisgendered, heterosexual male, which is the group which has the fewest restraints imposed upon it by the binary, although not to the extent that many of this demographic believe, and not to so limited extent as to make preserving the binary system preferable. Our portion of the traditional model is, as a collective, heavily invested in the binary model, and so sees opposition to the binary model as opposition to that collective, and by implication any member of that collective. It is necessary to break from this imposed pattern of thinking, and to realise that traditional male privilege, while it empowers the collective and certain individuals within the collective, does not empower every member of the collective, at least not to such a degree as to validate the restrains imposed upon it. This is much the logic with which feminists reject traditional female privileges, such as freedom from military service or intensive manual labour or, more stereotypically, traditional "chivalrous" treatment of women by men. (Rosie the Riveter is not a feminist icon just because she represents a woman engaging in work traditionally considered "male", but because she is engaged in work which women were traditionally "freed" from.)
More generally, it simply represents a freer and less restrictive way of thinking, acting and, well, being. It liberates one from imposed notions of appropriate identity and behaviour, thus allowing a fuller degree of personal autonomy and encouraging a greater level of interpersonal acceptance and respect, ends which, I would argue, are worth striving for. We would no longer hold ourselves accountable to external impositions, a soft tyranny as subtly damaging to the autonomy of the individual as any imposed taxation or corporate swindle.

I will say, I do understand where you're coming from- like everyone else here, I grew up in a society which holds the binary model of gender to be natural, innate to human society, and, therefore, "correct". Now, in a certain sense it is natural, in that seems to be the inevitable social expression of the biological roles of each gender, give or take some of the cultural baggage. That's why so many individuals happily identify as cisgendered heterosexuals, and may continue to do so in a post-binary world (although perhaps in spirit, rather than in such formal terms, given that the dissolution of the binary naturally relaxes the rigidity of identity implied by these terms). However, modern humans are too intelligent and too self-aware to be held as slaves to evolutionary efficiency, as evidenced by the emergence and increasing acceptance of what, for the sake brevity, I shall call "queer identities". After all, even pre-modern societies have recognised a certain malleability in these areas, such as the Greek acceptance of homosexuality, the third genders of India, or the transmen of the Balkan hill tribes. Why, then, do we cling to what is increasingly a hollow shell of a gender model, retaining of the constraints and trauma which it brings, while deprived of the stability which it leant archaic societies?

Put simply, we lose nothing by accepting the dissolution which I propose, or at least nothing beyond the awkward and ill-fitting comfort of tradition, and gain a greater level of autonomy and interpersonal respect in the process, both as individuals and as a society. These are goals which I feel are worth striving for, however long it may take.
 
I really don't think anyone would act differently were binary gender notions to be dropped, save for those who have already rejected traditional gender roles in the first place and have placed themselves outside of the system.

That's why I'm confused, honestly. It seems rather redundant to me, but as you said, that may just be my perspective. But aren't those who are already "opposed", to the system taking themselves outside of it? Homosexuals, bisexuals, transsexuals, et cetera?
 
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