whats with the "voice of reason"?
i wouldnt let her play, especially if you only have 1 computer!! 2civfanatics, 1 computer isnt going to mix well
now you have to apease her somehow, i would go with the luxurys (flowers, chocolate, dinner and
girly dvd), that should buy you some time for civ .. in the end u are going to have to give up some time or she may take you along to a civ anon meeting .. need to keep away from that!! .... oh she might divorse u also and as long as she doesnt get half your computer or steam account u can play civ all day and night long