Agreed. It always seems to go that way. However I do see their point, I have been in a similar position myself and all I can say is that you can't wait for people to come to you. You MUST go to others as early as possible in crisis's such as this and then give them a reason. Even telling others much about yourself is not enough, it could just all be a story prepared in advance. So not only must you go quickly, you must be friendly and likable as well as prove through your actions and words that you are commited. That's my advice to you two. For now, if you wish to speak with me, feel free to leave a message at my tent and I will return it as soon as possible. I don't have much to tell, but at least it's a start.