By not having a family of 3. Or by not having luxeries like TV, AC, a car, etc. By working hard and getting promoted to earn more. By whining and voting for democrats who will give you handouts, lol. Just because you can't understand it, doesn't mean it isn't possible. If you want to have kids when you are poor, you are going to have to rough it. Some people understand this and do well for themselves. Others expect the gov. to take care of them and lose. Pretty simple. I think I'd rather get my act together before having kids, but I'm not as motivated and dedicated as some. Props to them for making it work.