What makes you think the word "strange" is meant to refer to one's relationship to oneself in the context of this thread?. It isn't. It is about how other people view you. And in this context, strange doesn't just mean not something I have not got to known in its specifics so far, but something of which's very nature is outside of the realm of behaviors and traits considered normal by what one believes to be common consensus. So, I find it odd that you find something odd which people don't actually do. Interesting. But what means dysfunctional and where did you get the percentage from?