The topic of what should or shouldn't be in the game has the potential for diverse 'strong' opinions. Should the Mafia and organized crime, the drug trade, terrorism and political corruption be elements of the game?
I believe they should, as there is already a mod called "
White Lies Black Ops" which could be merged, hopefully. I think it's great your son is all about realism, when I was young (and still today), I too don't find the fictional "magic" stuff intrigueing at all.
Regarding the brothel thing: why mistyfy this topic? Wouldn't do it to my son.
I think your son can understand that people who don't get the love they need tend to buy it, to compensate. So, if you tell him something in the sense of "sometimes if you get hurt by a friend because he ignores you or likes more to play with someone else than you and you see a TV ad about some robot or something, often you wish to posess it to win back attraction and compensate your hurt feelings by consumption. Exactly the same happens with grown-ups, except they have other urges, too, as they want to make babies or at least like trying to.
What did you tell him about "getting killed for your country" or "why cars are dangerous", "who makes the money", "how prison works and why some people in the world are just not getting a trial", "why people are put to death in the land of the free"
AND then you can tell him that "in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make". When I was 10 I tried to read some Rousseau, I didn't understand half of it (at times it was quite boring) but I found an idea in it I had for some time on my own, by then, "a contract of society", making me very interested in philosophy after that.
If you explain highly complex things with the focus of peoples intentions and their sublimations of their needs to be respected as well as loved, in the sense of their "inner child", then your child can see these patterns much more clearly and intuitively.
If that involves the biology lessons as well as sociology ones, that's fine, too, I think. In later ages kids will have a problem with you explaining it - and in the worst case they will try to "pose" and gain a place in society by either imitating
gangsta or
banksta style. Explaining the origins of those two one-way-streets is essential and so are brothels (f*ck, baby, pay) - as much as barracks (drill, baby, die) or banks (yield, baby, crash).
Yes, showing violence is much more argueable then sex. Even young people are sexual beings. We treat them as if they were neutrums, that's just not right. When I was 10 I found something between my legs - and it was a bit scary to look at mr. snail to bolt - I really thought I was unnormal - as nobody knew about masturbation these days...or at least didn't tell me (and there was no google yet); looking around others if they know my secret etc. - boy, this has to change! let's be honest and proud about sexuality like the hippies did! Regarding prudery, don't make the same mistake with your kids... The more open we are about love and sex (and abuse of it in brothels) the less usury, wars and consumption of useless things there will be as less people try to compensate their urges with money or violence. Thats something a kid always should be able to tell a bully in the face. Or maybe not? Gonna marry in a few days, we're gonna see if I will raise my yet unborn son like this, in the future... good luck with yours!