Ajidica
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The issue isn't about semantics, but that a lot of individuals (largely but not exclusively on the religious right) used the phrase "sexual preference" to push the idea that someone being LGBT was a choice, like having a foot fetish or being into BDSM, and thus shouldn't be granted federal and state civil rights protections like those granted on grounds of race or gender. If you are dead set on using the phrase "sexual preference" to satisfy your inner pedant, more power to you; as long as you understand the context behind the phrase.No, preferences aren't something people can change freely, in anybody's "world". It's a generalizable statement. Preferring "man" vs "woman" vs "literally anything" (even things that have nothing to do with sex or relationships) does not imply choice. The choice of those is made based on the preferences (which themselves are not chosen), unless you can refute this as a logical proposition.
This has direct implications on how "bad" it is when someone uses the word. If the rejection of the usage is "preference implies choice", the rejection is wrong. Preference does not imply that. Doesn't matter whether it involves LGBTQ, sex frequency, or ice cream flavor.
I don't give a rat's $$$ about what "connotations" people choose to have regarding a particular usage of the word. There are plenty of common-use contexts for "preferences", almost none of which imply choosing the preference itself. People who want to take it in a bad way can do so, but they can also be duly ignored for acting like children.
Or if you do believe that one can freely change preference, go ahead and prefer to agree with Barrett then.
EDIT: Thanks for typo spotting Berzerker, fixed a sentence I clearly forgot what I was writing about halfway through.
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