I have no problems with your examples, I'm saying you are looking at them from the wrong end and arriving at wrong conclusions.I at least provided examples. What are your examples?
Yes, the Internet was developed independently of EU, but the EU helps Member States to deal with the way it has changed the world.
"Permitted"? By whom? I mean, the EU has its flaws, but it is nothing but a treaty between sovereign Member States. Why misrepresent it as some oppressive outside entity?The countries thought to be in favour were permitted a referendum
Whether or not a referendum is required to approve a treaty depends on a constitution of a country and how their constitutional court interprets it, not by someone's "permission".
And when it is not required, it depends on country's elected politicians if they wish to hold an advisory vote.
As for Ireland, it was simply not "told to vote again" but rather it renegotiated the treaty (in particular re: on the Irish commissioner, competency over tax rates, abortion, neutrality, and workers’ rights) and then approved the changed text.
So now the UK public has had its say and in a couple years we'll have enough hindsight to say how wise their choice was.There was no referendum in the UK on the EU prior to joining because the EU elite and local politicians knew full well that the UK public would vote against it.