I dealt in the mental health field for many years, and I can assure you that society is very happy to create the "out of sight, out of mind" position when it comes to that cohort.
Oh, they'll mollify themselves as a person is being strong-armed into a police van "oh, now he'll get the help he
needs", they say. They'll tut at the brutality, but think it's necessary and (in the long run) helpful. But Lordy, that's where it stops.
YCG: I don't see much of what you're saying other than denying that personality failings exist. Sure. But I don't see it as a useful conversation. Denying that they exist doesn't require a long conversation. You don't think they exist, okay. I can work with that.
Essentially what you're saying is that you're okay with people having potentially harmful beliefs as long as they express them in a politically correct manner, dogwhistle them, imply them, etc.
No, their beliefs will be less confronted if they use different words, though, and that's what's happening here. But if they change their internal feelings to reflect their softer words, that's even better. We'll attack the dogwhistles when we discover them, but certainly we'll confront the more odious expressions of antisocial beliefs first.
You're not going to go unchallenged if you state proudly that you detest an innocent cohort of people. You can soften your words to prevent your opinions from being confronted. Or, you can change your opinion after being confronted.