Originally posted by Zarn
Goonie, I think you are handling this the wrong way. Stop and think about it for a moment. Sure, I would have supported asking Poly for more land, but saying that our people didn't accept the BOP isn't that accurate. We generally accepted it. It was never official over here, but that was it.
I am a very loyal person and I am truly hurt when people who give me their word break it. I am not blowing up, I am simply reporting that we lost an upper hand in future negotiations due to his untimely comments.That is not very diplomatic to blow up at Oct for that reason.
We are in this together, whether you like it or not. That goes for both of you.
Originally posted by Donovan Zoi
I must admit that I am not comfortable with the sudden shift in policy that seems to be taking place here. In regards to Apolyton, we seem to be moving from a far-too-lenient stance to one that is much more hardline. I really don't believe that this is the best route for ourselves or our neighbor.
If you ask me, Poly really doesn't owe us anything. They could have let us suffer a GCA onslaught, but decided to step in to help. Was this decision partly for their benefit? Slightly. But we wouldn't have had a fighting chance had they not intervened.
Originally posted by Octavian X
Courtesy of MasterZen, along with my own parts of the log, a chat that took place today with Goonie and Apolyton.
(17:02:17) (@Togas) OctX, I've just finished talking to MZ and the others about this situation.
(17:03:13) (@Togas) As FAM of Apolyton, I've asked my people not to deal with or negotiate with Goonie until such a time that an official from CFC lets us know, officially, that he has been appointed to speak to us and that he represents CFC.
(17:04:17) (@Togas) furthermore, I STRONGLY advise that he not be given any ambassadorial position to Apolyton. Today's very angry discussion has really set back CFC/Apolyton relations and I fear that further arguments like this will seriously damage our relations
(17:05:04) (@MZ[Cooking]) everything was going fine until now, this shouldn't have happened
(17:05:43) (@Togas) I'm sure Goonie has very strong opinions and wants to advocate them for his team, but I really feel that his argument with MZ today was in handled poorly.
Originally posted by Zarn
Alright, this is how we are going to settle this. We set up a chat. (Don't forget to invite me. ) Then we iron everything out with Poly. Please, let me talk first, because I think I can fix the relations. Do we have a deal?
Originally posted by Goonie
Is there a reason you are doing my job? Are you more loyal to a foreigner than you are to me. I saved the chat so that I could post it. Why are you doing it? Please do not do my job.
Originally posted by Octavian X
For one, Goonie, I felt it impolite to not respond to a direct query. I was asked specifically, and that response is what I had felt was our current situation. We've not had any formal polls/discussion at the subject at all. If anything, previous indication had indicated that the team was IN FAVOR of a border at the Balance of Power.
I think the following statement by Togas, Apolyton's FAM, in their ambassadorial channel, with Goonie present, no less, sums it up.
I could care less about the actions you take in your official position when your term begins on turn 136. However, I at least request that, whatever you do, you at least procede politely.
Originally posted by Goonie
No I was not rude.
Togas has a right to his opinion. I am disappointed he feels that way. Unfortunately he took the wrong interpretations of my words.
[14:44] [Goonie] So you are telling me taht the only reason this deal was not approved was because the other was
[14:45] [Goonie] That is a very selfish reason
Originally posted by Goonie
I am confused as per how relations are in a bad state. You are the boss, so it is up to you, but I feel that if we look weak and look as if we are trying to excuse ourselves for sticking up for our opinions, then future negotiations will be increasingly difficult. I don't think we need a chat. I was planning on waiting a few days so that Apolyton could feel bad about turning us down, then going in and working out our alliance as per the poll.
We need Apolyton, just like they need us. But the more we look like we are trying to excuse ourselves and the more we present conflicting ideas, the more they will walk all over us.