Seems to be a point being missed. That wasn't meant as "there's good churches and bad churches." The point is that in a conversation that was really not likely to happen at all in the first place, which had every reason to be nothing more than "here," "yeah, thanks," reasons for not going to church that I had held for over a decade were just...demolished...in a minute flat. I wasn't there
looking for a good church. On their side, yes, they were "doing outreach" while selling fireworks but there are very good reasons that outreach
to me could have, and really should have, been: quick invite, thanks, next case. For the conversation to take the turns it did...
It's really hard, especially through limited media, to explain how...weird...that conversation was. For
@bernie14 in particular...I understand completely how you are seeing it and your response is totally reasonable...but still from where I stand incorrect. Again, I'm a gambler. I understand that probability
allows for outrageous results like the dealer getting twelve blackjacks in a row...but I also understand that that probability is so low that it's worth checking him for cheating if he does. I can, and have, written off a lot of stuff to "what a coincidence." But some things are so improbable that even though they certainly
could "just happen" you have to check the dealer...and that conversation was one of them. I was
directed to that church.