Me and my brother started a LAN game and every turn I gain the ability to do production, but at the bottom of the game screen it says Waiting for Player 1 (Bismarck). When this message is up I can't move units and no action registers. This has also gotten worse over the coarse of the game. Plus, every time we boot up it's so long that it says I disconnected from the server. Is there a way to fix this?