Speaking of rules:
We can use this app for picking civilizations:
http://georgeskleres.com/civ5/
Everyone can ban 1 civ, after that everyone gets 3 random civs to choose from, also players are allowed to swap their pools with each other (i.e. change my 3 civs for your 3 civs)
Also i think we need to set a rule for declaring a war.
I know that NQmod players can move all their units simultaniously, but i don't like it, cause it is like "the one who clicks faster wins". On the other hand - the one who strikes first has significant advantage.
I'm currently thinking of a rule like "you should notify the player 2(or 3) turns before declaring a war" so that you have time to position your units.