When you're playing in a game, and it "freezes", don't be too sure you're frozen.... Sometimes, you will get stuck on a screen that says "waiting for.......", etc. in this screen you can't don anything except click the r2 button, and access your PSN. This means you're being cheated!!!!!!! for some reason, when they're doing this, they can't send messages(standby perhaps?), so even try to send your opponent messages and you'll see that they go unanswered. This happened to me today, by a ranked player, and I sat there for an hour before he finally quit. When he did quit, he apparently had alot to say that he couldn't before. Don't let this happen to you anymore!!!!!